What was the most meanest thing to ever happen to you????

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04 Aug 2011, 2:24 pm

Well, I was teased throughout elementary school as I was different from other kids and everybody thought I was a weirdo. In middle school I hung out with the wrong people and ended up getting ridiculed a lot. People would call me names such as "gay" and "stupid". People were generally annoyed by my appearance and I was excluded from many events with other kids. One day a bunch of kids ganged up on me and yelled things like "Go kill yourself" and "You were a mistake in life". That was awful.

I moved last summer and started high school in a new state. At first it was really hard for me, but I can say that I have friends now and am actually looking forward to going back to school. People here don't pick on me that much, so it's all good.



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04 Aug 2011, 3:07 pm

Pushed down concrete stairs by bullies at school, which made me lose a tooth. They then went on to kick me over and over again until I was black and blue. The police got involved and those bastards went to court over it



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04 Aug 2011, 3:26 pm

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Not to be a pain to the original poster, but to be honest I'm not sure what gain can be had from answering a question like this without more information on why it's asked.
It doesn't seem like much of a conversation starter except among the emo crowd :)


Agreed. This seems like an emo thread that will go nowhere good.

I stopped reading after a few posts. There are countless numbers of real horror stories out there of rape, torture, murder, & mutilation. If you're really into reading about those type of things, go read some of the PTSD forums. But be warned, read too many of them and it's pretty easy to loose all faith in the human race.



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04 Aug 2011, 3:32 pm

I can't really pick one time. I nearly got set on fire at school because I was a 'ret*d' (according to them) then when I left school I was assulted in a playground then again on a bus. Getting put in the psych ward was probably the most scary though.


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04 Aug 2011, 3:35 pm

Well. I am a girl, so nothing horrible physically, as I've read.
I have been bullied by that usual crowd, and as a result, for some time, I was a bully myself.
I think the worst of it came from this group of boys who were the worst bullies I've had (that's not saying very much; I've had an easier life) who used to call me "lesbian," "emo," "loner" amongst other things that really have no negative significance anymore. I was never any of those things. They only called me them based on the way I was superficially.
But I think that did something, because nowadays I always expect to hear the worst when I first meet a person. Or if someone is laughing, I immediately assume it's about me. If someone is whispering, all the same.
Soooooo I suppose what ultimately was the worst from them was leaving me like that. I'd like to be able to see a person and get the impression that they are, indeed, not going to make fun of me. :/


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04 Aug 2011, 5:54 pm

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I was accused of being under demonic influence and was shunned by an entire church congregation. It must have really been irritating to them when I still continued to attend services. "Jesus Loves You" but we can't acknowledge your existence.

Sigh.


That is why I hate conformists.

The worst thing physically that has happened to me, was some guy beating me up (the police have pictures of the wounds but we never went to court over it) because he thought I was staring at his little brother like I wanted to fight him, but I was not really staring at anything in particular.
The worst thing mentally that has happened to me...... nothing really because I'm not affected by words, (my sister's boyfriend taught me every cuss word when I was 4), but the most annoying thing that's happened to me is when the campus supervisor in 5th grade gave me in-school suspension for "fighting" when another kid had been punching me over 50 times, the other kid talked really fast and claimed he was defending himself against me, but since I was slow to speak and stuttered a lot, the @$$hole Mr. Williams assumed that I was the one who was fighting.



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04 Aug 2011, 6:19 pm

When I was in fourth and fifth grade, there was a group of eight people who really hated me(but I didn't know why), and every day after school as I'd try to walk home they would hide in different places along the route, and when I'd walk past they would all jump out and try to catch me to beat me up.



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04 Aug 2011, 7:33 pm

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I had to have my special Timon and Pumbaa plushies written into my IEP because I could not function without them. My evil school bus driver tried to make me give them up forever and even stopped the school bus for over an hour in his vain attempt. He tried one last time to make me surrender when he stopped the bus in front of my house. As an adult, I would have told him to procreate with himself and possibly kicked him in the boys but I just screamed "NO!" at him. He got in HUGE trouble for that stunt when my mom called the school and told them what happened and how traumatized I was. It was like I was in fear for my children's lives. My parents were always worried I would be carrying them around with me until I was fifteen and personally I don't see what's so wrong with that because I've never really outgrown the need for a transitional object...or creature. But anyway, that stunt of my stupid school bus driver stopped me from taking them everywhere with me. As I said, I couldn't really cope without them. My behavior problems at school got worse but no one was really able to see the connection. Everyone hated that driver and was trying for years to get him fired but he did seem to have a penchant for picking on the kids that had problems and couldn't really defend themselves. I was paranoid he was going to break into our house and steal my plushies. I wonder if I also thought he would try and break into my mind because I somehow was able to convince myself that I had "outgrown" my plushies and Lion King. I think I had even convinced myself that it was "bad" to still like them.


OMG I remember u telling me this story on my "Attachment object" thread. It made me so mad what your bus driver did! I would`ve stopped riding the bus and had my mom or someone else drive me to school and pick me up from school! That was so mean!! ! I`m sorry that happened!


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04 Aug 2011, 7:50 pm

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My father's constant taunting and critizing my every move made me start pulling my hair out.
Yeah - I had one like that too.
Eventually I was able to move out and had no contact with him for years but even in his frail old age, when I eventually did see him again during the last years of his life, he would still occasionally try it on with me. It would never fail to raise an echo of that horrible empty despair I used to get when it really had an effect on me.


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04 Aug 2011, 9:58 pm

At age 5 I had a neighborhood bully poke out my left eye. Thankfully my left eye was saved. I was constantly beaten up and harassed all the way through my senior year in high school. In 3rd grade, I was assaulted by a gang of school yard bullies. One of my last school memories is sitting in a meeting with the high school math teacher telling me how much of a fsck-up I was and how he was writing me off as a loss. I'm also a survivor of physical and emotional abuse. I have complex PTSD.

I really never gotten my life together until my early 30s.



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05 Aug 2011, 12:38 am

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Having my father around. One thing lead to another, and the result is one of the worst childhoods in existance.

Same here .It is not his fault it is just that I don't get on with him.


My father's constant taunting and critizing my every move made me start pulling my hair out.


I suspect a mental disorder... His siblings turned out fine.


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05 Aug 2011, 5:26 am

The worst thing that ever happened to me wasn't what someone actually did to me, it was more something I witnessed, but it affected me more then any of the bullying did.

I wasn't bullied to much, I recall being beaten up and harrased - it was rare - mostly I was excluded and forgotten.

I love your R&C reference in your sig makayla, it took me two playthroughs on the oiriginal R&C to get the RYNO.


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05 Aug 2011, 5:43 am

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To be honest nothing on this scale has ever happened to me. Most of what did I share some responsibility for.


I cant even remember people doing anything devastating to me.

I am responsible for the meanest things happening to me. I used to do many things that hurt girls i was in love with, i kept pushing them away. The things i did backfired on me because i was consumed by guilt.

I don't have experiences like this anymore but this is what happened many times over until i was 20. I don't know what is worse not being able to get people to fall in love with you or continually have great girls falling for you but being to much of a cowardly and confused kid and seeing them slip right through your fingers every time. I have learned from these experiences now and hope i wont make these mistakes again.



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05 Aug 2011, 9:34 am

Getting stabbed in the back at the end of a group project, while before the back stabbing, a pleasant, un-suspicious facade was maintained.

Then there are the typical consequences associated with being ignored and excluded. This wasn't particularly problematic among peers save for the occasional feelings of isolation, but when they're your graders or they're in a position of authority to significantly negatively affect or thwart your plans, you start to feel it in more of a "real way".



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05 Aug 2011, 9:47 am

Worst thing that ever happened to me was being forced to kiss a girl I did not like at all by a number of bullies (>10). For the rest, general social ostracism, bullying and backstabbing after being naive. Reading this thread, I'm terribly glad that my teachers and family did not join in, though. At least I had reprieves.


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02 Jul 2012, 11:05 pm

The way I was treated in high school
And the way I was treated on MySpace everyday until I finally got off it forever!!


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