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Do you currently have imaginary friends?
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24 Jan 2014, 4:56 pm

I have an awesome imaginary friend. She's my BFF! :heart:



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25 Jan 2014, 12:42 am

Never had them in the first place.


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25 Jan 2014, 1:23 am

I did when I was younger, but I outgrew that phase a long time ago.


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25 Jan 2014, 12:57 pm

Norepinephrine wrote:
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No, but I still feel like my stuffed toys are alive...

Me too. :3


Me three. I always make sure they are comfortable before I get up each morning. I also envy them for getting to lay there in the bed all day.


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25 Jan 2014, 1:14 pm

Joe90 wrote:
Norepinephrine wrote:
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No, but I still feel like my stuffed toys are alive...

Me too. :3


Me three. I always make sure they are comfortable before I get up each morning. I also envy them for getting to lay there in the bed all day.


Yeah, same here. :) I love that part in that one Mr. Bean episode where he's about to leave for the day and then he tucks Teddy in and the show audience goes "Aaaawwwww." :)


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25 Jan 2014, 1:19 pm

Peahawk gives you a love bite, than he's your friend for life. :D :P

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_GaoB-I1GA&feature=youtu.be[/youtube]


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26 Jan 2014, 12:43 am

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Peahawk gives you a love bite, than he's your friend for life. :D :P

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_GaoB-I1GA&feature=youtu.be[/youtube]


Aaaww, he's a cutie, all right. :D

Just out of curiosity, CockneyRebel, have they ever made plushies of the little guy? He looks a lot like "plushie material" to me. :D


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26 Jan 2014, 12:58 am

Interesting that people here have had imaginary friends. I recently saw on The Project a doctor talking about what type of children have imaginary friends and he said one type are highly social.

I've never had an imaginary friend but I have thought of movie characters as being real and I sometimes treat my toys like they are alive. I don't play with them but talk to them like they are real people.

I play with my Viper star ship from Battlestar Galactica though.

Actually not long ago to better cope with having hallucinations I dreamed up this Australian Shepherd. He kept me protected. My hallucinations were pretty scary. Can't really remember what his name was. It only lasted a few weeks.


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26 Jan 2014, 1:13 am

I think what the doctor on The Project said about social children having imaginary friends makes sense, Pensieve. I can recall being a little kid seeing Who Framed Roger Rabbit on the Disney Channel for the first time, and because I didn't understand how the animation and human actors had been combined together in the filmmaking process, I thought that it was possible for cartoon characters and human beings to coexist. For a long time afterwards, I kept telling my parents, "Mommy, Daddy - Dumbo, Pooh and Frosty the Snowman CAN come and play with me!" I don't think I would have wanted my favorite cartoon characters to come to life and play with me that bad if some part of me hadn't had a deep craving for social interaction - that is, social interaction in which I felt safe, secure, and in control at all times....something that interaction with "real people" didn't entail.


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26 Jan 2014, 3:00 am

I don't think I have ever had imaginary friends. It would take a lot of effort to pretend the existence of a person who I know and understand doesn't actually exist. I don't know why someone would want to do that.

As for dolls, I feel kind of uneasy about them. I don't like them to be face down or underneath things, but I don't like them to be around me, either. I'm kind of scared of them. It feels like their eyes are looking at me.



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26 Jan 2014, 3:34 am

I've never had an imaginary friend. I can't comprehend how/why people create them, it seems totally illogical to me. I can't even picture how it works... do you try to imagine someone then somehow pretend to yourself they are real? How are you able to interact with them - do they ever say anything unexpected to you - i.e. that you haven't made up for them to say? :?


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26 Jan 2014, 5:07 pm

Thanks for starting this thread and giving me the input I needed for an additional trait in the Aspie contact group. :)

And this obviously is an neurodiversity-trait.



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26 Jan 2014, 5:13 pm

LtlPinkCoupe wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
Peahawk gives you a love bite, than he's your friend for life. :D :P

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_GaoB-I1GA&feature=youtu.be[/youtube]


Aaaww, he's a cutie, all right. :D

Just out of curiosity, CockneyRebel, have they ever made plushies of the little guy? He looks a lot like "plushie material" to me. :D


I've thought about it, but I can't sew. I could try to make one. :D :P


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26 Jan 2014, 5:19 pm

TallyMan wrote:
I've never had an imaginary friend. I can't comprehend how/why people create them, it seems totally illogical to me. I can't even picture how it works... do you try to imagine someone then somehow pretend to yourself they are real? How are you able to interact with them - do they ever say anything unexpected to you - i.e. that you haven't made up for them to say? :?


My imaginary friends are just there. I don't think I made them, or maybe I did but it was before I can remember. I love them, they are all I have, or they're all I had anyway. I think they are still there but I just can't contact them anymore.

They didn't really feel imaginary to me, they felt real.

My daughter has never had imaginary friends, so I don't see it as a family trait.


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26 Jan 2014, 5:47 pm

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I've never had an imaginary friend. I can't comprehend how/why people create them, it seems totally illogical to me. I can't even picture how it works... do you try to imagine someone then somehow pretend to yourself they are real? How are you able to interact with them - do they ever say anything unexpected to you - i.e. that you haven't made up for them to say? :?


My imaginary friends are just there. I don't think I made them, or maybe I did but it was before I can remember. I love them, they are all I have, or they're all I had anyway. I think they are still there but I just can't contact them anymore.

They didn't really feel imaginary to me, they felt real.

My daughter has never had imaginary friends, so I don't see it as a family trait.


That's quite interesting. I didn't realise they were just there without being deliberately created. I wonder if its like a split personality except the personalities are aware of each other... or you are aware of a minor personality. So could you hear them talk to you in your mind?


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26 Jan 2014, 5:52 pm

TallyMan wrote:
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I've never had an imaginary friend. I can't comprehend how/why people create them, it seems totally illogical to me. I can't even picture how it works... do you try to imagine someone then somehow pretend to yourself they are real? How are you able to interact with them - do they ever say anything unexpected to you - i.e. that you haven't made up for them to say? :?


My imaginary friends are just there. I don't think I made them, or maybe I did but it was before I can remember. I love them, they are all I have, or they're all I had anyway. I think they are still there but I just can't contact them anymore.

They didn't really feel imaginary to me, they felt real.

My daughter has never had imaginary friends, so I don't see it as a family trait.


That's quite interesting. I didn't realise they were just there without being deliberately created. I wonder if its like a split personality except the personalities are aware of each other... or you are aware of a minor personality. So could you hear them talk to you in your mind?


I have often wondered about it being a multiple personality thing with me. I've had a lot of trauma in my early childhood life. Certain personalities are protective and more dominant.

That is all I can say. :)


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