She is not an aspie, she is just really into spirituality and natural health, etc.
When you live where she does, you don't turn any money or property over to them, but you also cannot own any of the land privately. So, you can build a house there, with a 99 year lease, but you will never own the land underneath it. So, you basically rent from the community. Since they have a spiritual/meditative retreat center, they earn money by hosting corporate employees and individuals.
My Aunt and Uncle are very environmentally conscious people and they are currently building a housing development that will be eco-friendly and will have mixed income people living there with affordable housing. They will have different sizes and styles of housing, with little personal land, but a big community park in the middle, which will force people to socialize with their neighbors. That would definitely not be a place I would want to live, only b/c I obviously do not like socializing.
I think it would be great to build "Smart Houses," where one can have absolute control of their environment within their house. You can control the lighting in every room, the temperature. You could build a community center, so if one feels like socializing, there is a place to do it. Some of us Aspies are quite social, we just rub people the wrong way unintentionally. Could you imagine a bunch of Aspies in a room together? We could unintentionally insult eachother the whole time, and most of us wouldn't care!
Tallgirl.