Katatonia wrote:
Yes my memory is bad
I am hesitant to suggest this as an AS trait, but some of us do have unusually good long term memories. I have been told that I myself have a photographic memory (which I do not personally believe), but I do commonly remember things that others have long forgotten and I do remember things visually and events as movies. Take a look at the movie "Mozart and the Whale" sometime. I do not like this movie about autism (too stereotyped) but there is one scene in it in which Donald is driving his taxicab down the road and sees the route up ahead very visually as a map projected by his mind almost like the heads-up display of a fighter aircraft (too highly exaggerated, but it gets the idea across).
Katatonia wrote:
If I do have ADHD then why was I diagnosed with autism? Was the guy who diagnosed me an idiot?
Psychs are not infallible by any means. You will ALWAYS know yourself better than they do and it is not at all uncommon for those of us with some form of autism to recognize the fact before anybody else does, especially when it has gone undiagnosed for a long time. In my case I met an individual whose behavior was so unusual that I tried to understand why. He treated me like his best (or only) friend in this world but was so avoidant and unable to communicate with me. I went through several possible explanations but eventually returned to an earlier thought of autism. I spent a month researching autism and Aspergers only to realize that what I was reading matched my own behavior perfectly. When I took my findings to a psych I had seen occasionally, she confirmed what I suspected. Take the online tests and do the research for yourself then see how well you fit the pattern. A psych will only be able to ask you the same questions in a knowledgeable manner that you can easily ask yourself.
Additionally as others have pointed out, it is not at all uncommon for those of us on the spectrum to have comorbids and not just a single diagnosis. Autism, ADHD and others can exist alongside each other, although some parts of the DSM definitions specifically exclude certain comorbid factors (for example a diagnosis of Aspergers specifically depends on the absence of schizophrenia). This is where a psych can help to refine what you may and may not actually have.