Davidufo wrote:
Unfortunately, mine seem to be people.
And even worse (or better, I'm not sure) it always seems to be my friends.
The strange thing is, I know when it's going to happen.
I can recognise the feeling, and I could (if I was strong enough in this area), stop it from developing into obsession.
It's bad through and through, I end up really scrutinising the actions and motives of the poor individual.
That winds them up ... and of course, I am disappointed with what I 'see' within them.
In the end, I just have to hate them to break free.
Very sad when it's your friends, and sometimes feels like some sort of curse, a friendship curse.

i recognize that, but it doesn't happen very often with friends,
my friends just accept me, maybe because i'm a women, i tend to give compliments and so, which makes it perhaps bearable, i'm also very good in camouflaging my obsessive behaviour (and getting better all the time

).
sometime it does go too far, but i haven't got the time to hate them then-although it can take years- , they hate me before that and when i sence that, it's no longer interesting for me either.
i also suspect some obsessions are interpreted as 'being in love'