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Well it might attract a hng as they call them online but you attract those anyway no matter what you do. I can put a face pick up wearing my glasses and still attract a hng. Hell I've had profiles with no picture up and still attracted a hng.

They get around and are easy to spot: "U wanna webcam, wot u doin 2day, i am rubbin my dick cause its hard..."

That tends to give it away. That much I can read!

Why encourage them with videos like that though?

Who else did you think they would attract?

It is just an expression of things like sexuality, dance, acceptance of the human body despite its flaws or imperfections. I had hoped people might realise that.

Just because a person is sexual this does not mean they cannot be intellectual.

Know what else is high in sals? Most alcohols. (rye, gin & vodka have zero, dry white wines are the next lowest.) That would explain why drinking makes you feel suicidal vs. the effects of alcohol itself doing it, especially if you tended to drink sweeter red wines or fruit liqueurs.

It is a blog and believe me I have seen much worse posted than that!

Please for the love of god never visit a BDSM website or similar. You want to see the stuff they post there and it seeps out onto other areas of the internet. You get full on close ups of just about everything.

What is the difference between someone posting a video dancing in their underwear and someone walking around on holiday in a bikini with a thong back?

I'd never want to visit a BDSM or any kind of porn site

The difference between your videos and wearing swimwear on a beach is context

it's appropriate to be wearing swimwear on a beach but not appropriate to be posting links to blog videos of you in your underwear on an Asperger's Syndrome Discussion site

Not if you want to be taken seriously (in my opinion)

I have not posted links to the dancing video. I use my blogs as a video host, I posted links to the 'ahh bisto' video and the 'George meets Bobble' video all of which can be found on my you tube account. The one is shot from the shoulders up and the other I don't appear in a tall except for an accidental shot of my arm which I thought added to the bad home made movie charm lol

If people want to judge and not take me seriously because of that fine, but if you follow to one of my other blogs you will also find this:



This is a sample of my grade average from the last time I was studying (natural sciences) on a University course.

Just because I dance in my underwear does not mean I don't have a brain! People need to learn to not make such silly assumptions.

And there in lies my problem....

People confuse me, intellectual or creative pursuits do not.

When you realise that is no one who can understand your situation?

When you try to tell people that you feel lonely because you live a hermit lifestyle and they interpret that as clinical depression. Can a person not have any feelings of loneliness anymore without being clinically depressed? Is loneliness not a normal human emotion sometimes especially in human beings who want to develop social bonds but struggle and so live a completely isolated existence as a result?

Having physical health problems that have kept you housebound has also not helped but they don't understand that either. They have not had to put up with feeling physically ill or being in pain every day. They have been able to get out and about to work on their socialising.

Can a person not feel lonely because they struggle to find others who can understand them? Because the want to connect with people but cannot because of their difficulty in find people who understand?

And then what do people want to do...treat the loneliness as though it is a mental illness by drugging you up. Either that or they want you to take advice that messes around with the few areas of your life that you are actually happy with. Do they not want you to have any happiness t all or something?

You love your diet...they want you to change it because they think they have a better one as though they are some expert on your peronal biology. We all have a unique genotype, what you need nutritionally might not be what I need nutritionally. When it comes to food I will listen to what my body needs and what my digestive system prefers. I put my diet together after doing a lot of careful test runs to find out what worked for me. I do not wish to change it and if I did I already have my own plans put together based on research I have done. Careful research, which I enjoyed doing.

They want you to drop your hobbies in favour of inane social chit chat about utter rubbish. Another thing I enjoy doing (hobbies not the chit chat)

They want you to change your little routines...another thing that to me is enjoyable. I wouldn't have them if I didn't like something about them.

Am I allowed any happiness? Am I allowed anything I enjoy in this world. Anything at all? Any more advice on how I should give up the things I love just to fit in socially.

All because someone is not good at socialising and gets a bit lonely because the world can't accept them as they are.

It is just an expression of things like sexuality, dance, acceptance of the human body despite its flaws or imperfections. I had hoped people might realise that.

Just because a person is sexual this does not mean they cannot be intellectual or vice versa.

And at the end of day it is just a video. People should not make so many assumptions. It is akin to saying that just because a woman wears a short skirt that they are an easy lay or that they deserve to get raped. It is ridiculous.

This is now a therapy thread

I am conducting therapy on Bumble

It is a blog and believe me I have seen much worse posted than that!

Please for the love of god never visit a BDSM website or similar. You want to see the stuff they post there and it seeps out onto other areas of the internet. You get full on close ups of just about everything.

What is the difference between someone posting a video dancing in their underwear and someone walking around on holiday in a bikini with a thong back?

Why would you want to waste your time looking up vile websites?
I've never heard of BDSM so I don't know what that is, but it sounds like you have a fascination for that type of thing. This does you no favours in the image you give people of yourself.

The difference? The difference is that at the beach you are wearing the same thing as everyone else, everyone knows why everyone else is wearing it, despite its lack of covering it is an outer garment, designed for sunbathing and swimming. Underwear...the clue is in the name. Underwear is frequently designed to be provocative, is often flimsy and sheer, even see-through and is meant to be private! Couple that with provocative dancing...well, need I say more.