Who do you NOT get along with?

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I don't get along with:

Gossips
Know-it-alls
People who criticize me
People with bad tempers
People who are impatient
Overly perky people
Attention wh**es

I don't get along with people who don't understand me
I don't get along with someone who think they are always right and acts like a narcissist and always gets pissed at me
I don't get along with someone who always turns everything into an argument and tries to win at everything and be right

I don't get along with someone who is far too sensitive and always attacks you when you don't agree with them or share their views and thinks anything is an attack when it's not

My ex boyfriends. We fought too much

My ex aspie online friend, we always argued whenever we talk to each other on a forum and everything always turned into an argument between us because we both seemed to speak two different languages and I think he was being deliberately obtuse anyway since he always acted like an idiot by misreading what I say or misunderstanding what I wrote when I was clear in it

Rednecks, big breasted wimen, yuppies, trendy lefties, conservative right wingers, fat people and skinny people
The only people I like, like the same things as me and look like me

I think I like you, but unfortunately you probably don't like me because I'm kind of skinny and I'm unlikely to look like you. Pity.

Speak for yourself.

I avoid unnecessary dramatics at all costs.

Ditto. Drama queens really annoy me.

Well you've evidently got far better executive function than me then because I don't have full control over
how I react if I get too stressed/angry

What is a matter of choice for some people is not for others

So to castigate people who you claim to be your own kind for something we can't help isn't exactly supportive

Sometimes they just can't help it.

I'm not castigating anyone. I just don't get along with them.

It's a bit like being allergic to kittens. A person may very well like kittens, but they are unable to be around them due to reasons beyond their control. Ironically, highly dramatic/emotional people set me off and cause a brain implosion; I realize it's not their fault, but my brain reacts negatively anyway.

My particular impairment is I under-react to most events in life, which isn't always preferred. I almost got DXed with Schizoid PD because of it.

I'm only overly emotional when angry or upset about something. I generally under react compared to most NTs when I feel ok.
I have to remember to put an engaged/smiling look on my face or they seem to think I'm angry. The concept of being low key and not overly expressive or animated unless there's specific stimulus doesn't exist for them.

Executive functioning is involved in how one handles stress? That's a new one to me.

I don't blow up at all emotionally (no matter how I feel), and I can just barely clean my teeth when the moon is right.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Executive_functions

"Self-regulatory model

Primarily derived from work examining behavioral inhibition, Barkley’s self-regulatory model views executive functions as composed of four main abilities.[41] One element is working memory that allows individuals to resist interfering information. A second component is the management of emotional responses in order to achieve goal-directed behaviors. Thirdly, internalization of self-directed speech is used to control and sustain rule-governed behavior and to generate plans for problem-solving. Lastly, information is analyzed and synthesized into new behavioral responses to meet one’s goals. Changing one’s behavioral response to meet a new goal or modify an objective is a higher level skill that requires a fusion of executive functions including self-regulation, and accessing prior knowledge and experiences."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Executive_dysfunction

"Executive dysfunction appears to consistently involve disruptions in task-oriented behavior, which requires executive control in the inhibition of habitual responses and goal activation.[10] Such executive control is responsible for adjusting behaviour to reconcile environmental changes with goals for effective behaviour.[11] Impairments in set shifting ability are a notable feature of executive dysfunction; set shifting is the cognitive ability to dynamically change focus between points of fixation based on changing goals and environmental stimuli.[12] This offers a parsimonious explanation for the common occurrence of impulsive, hyperactive, disorganized, and aggressive behaviour in clinical patients with executive dysfunction. Executive dysfunction, particularly in working memory capacity, may also lead to varying degrees of emotional dysregulation, which can manifest as chronic depression, anxiety, or hyperemotionality.[13] Russell Barkley proposed a hybrid model of the role of behavioural disinhibition in the presentation of ADHD, which has served as the basis for much research of both ADHD and broader implications of the executive system.[14]"

Those (either NT or Autistic Spectrum) that make uninformed decisions and do not care about the facts...

Those who cannot in any way hold a rational conversation.

Those who will make wildly illogical leaps... In this case, they ask a question, you answer and then completely draw an illogical and emotional conclusion and serve it up with the Phrases "It's obvious that you," "So what you are saying is," and "I find it hard to believe,"

Religious zealots of any stripe...

People who judge or discriminate and think they are the perfect example of Mankind.
People who complain about every little thing when there's people living in much worse situations.
People who like to talk about others and usually the things said are untrue.

I have big breasts but they shrunk, does that mean we may get along now?

Well I am skinny so maybe not.

True, but it depends exactly how this is meant. You have to allow for the fact that telling people that others have it much worse than them doesn't help to solve their own problems. It may provide a perspective, but it doesn't actually help anyone.