Ticker wrote:
SteveK wrote:
GEE For SOME reason there are a lot of boys that LOVE drums, but there HAVE been a number of women drummers over the years. You'd think they would be fine with you playing.
Steve
You have to remember I was a kid in the 70's before women were considered equal enough to do the same thing as guys. There were a number of female drummers in the school band by high school, but my mom still thought it was too masculine. My dad always objected to my playing the bass and wanting to play drums because they were not solo instruments. If Dolly Parton hadn't been playing guitar I'm sure I wouldn't have been allowed to play it. Mom is really into me learning fiddle because she considers it very feminine, despite the vast majority of accomplished fiddlers and violinists are all male. Now consider what I just told you about mom and then get this she played tuba in high school now how is that feminine?!
I just feel silly buying a drum as an adult with no aspirations of joining a band or else I would just go get one. I love the looks of Pork Pie drums.
it makes me think about the fact i never dared to touch any instrument and not learn any music because it was too sensitive (compared to painting which i've always done but it is not as close to my heart), maybe music is a thing that comes closest to any definition of love i could imagine, so i only hoped it would reveal itself one day ...
till finally i got too old to worry about it and i started to learn it anyway, and judging by the fact i never study anything at all but succeed quite well (with an already overbooked life) i really think it's stupid i haven't done it before...(and i'm ready to kill anyone who now wants to separate me from music)