I was diagnosed at the age of 41 so I was raised as an NT. It turned out, however, that more than half of my family are undiagnosed Aspies. So being different was the norm in my family. It was a rather dysfunctional upbringing.
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Autism Spectrum Disorder, Level 1 (with language impairment) and Other Specified Anxiety Disorder
Aspie Score: 140 of 200, NT Score: 63 of 200
You are very likely neurodiverse (Aspie)