lemon wrote:
and now i know that socialising is not what we do best, i stop trying altogether, not that i stop being friendly, but i acknowledge my own desire to keep things short, not too much unnecessary contact, not lay myself out to please people and it's much more comfortable.
I look at socializing as a ritual behavior and some apsies are more emotionally connected than others. I think it is fine to not feel a desire for a lot of social interaction. I don't have the desire, particularly at this point in my life.
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