I was so frustrated that I beat her up

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Iwannadie
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06 Sep 2015, 1:14 am

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These meltdowns happens twice or three times a months, specially every time before her period she has a big melt down.


She may have premenstrual dysphoric disorder.
I was thinking the same thing & there are treatments that a female doc or a GP can prescribe.


The more I read about the PDD, the more I am convince that she suffers from it. It started when she was just 12, and she got her period. She used to be edgy up to 10 days before period and few days into it. Now, it happens in the day of starting periods or night before that.
I am going to talk to her doctor about that.

Also, she is taking Zoloft for the past 4 years for her OCD. Doctors told me that her OCD is caused by her Asperger.

I really appreciate your comments and suggestions.



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06 Sep 2015, 1:44 am

I am sorry Iwannadie, I have tried to send you a comprehensive private message but the message system is malfunctioning at present. It could be my computer or a WP glitch. If you are comfortable doing so, you could try to send me your email address via the message system here (hoping it works better for you) and if I receive it, I will be in touch direct via email if you are comfortable with that. It is much easier, however you may not be comfortable with that as I am virtual stranger to you, which I understand. The private message system of WP can play up and often does :( It seems to hate long messages and eats them for breakfast, so the sender is left with a blank screen - it is somewhat annoying!



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06 Sep 2015, 9:10 am

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I am sorry Iwannadie, I have tried to send you a comprehensive private message but the message system is malfunctioning at present. It could be my computer or a WP glitch. If you are comfortable doing so, you could try to send me your email address via the message system here (hoping it works better for you) and if I receive it, I will be in touch direct via email if you are comfortable with that. It is much easier, however you may not be comfortable with that as I am virtual stranger to you, which I understand. The private message system of WP can play up and often does :( It seems to hate long messages and eats them for breakfast, so the sender is left with a blank screen - it is somewhat annoying!



What I did was copy and paste my message before hitting the submit button to someone. Were you still able to send it? How do you know it was blank when she got it? I wonder if this is what happened to another WP member as well when I sent them a message?


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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.

Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.


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06 Sep 2015, 12:49 pm

Iwannadie wrote:
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Thank you all for your helpful comments. I got an appointment with a psychologist in my workplace. My daughter has Asperger's. She is extremely intelligent, and a big help for me. She is very kind and caring, a perfect child most of the times, if these tantrums didn't happen, she would have a perfect life. Every time she has a melt down, afterwards, she cries and asks me "mommy, what happened? what happening?" and few times while she was crying after a huge melt down, she was saying that doctors let her down, didn't help her....
These meltdowns happens twice or three times a months, specially every time before her period she has a big melt down.
She has a very sensitive soul so it hurts to see her in pain :cry: .
The other day she was telling me that she is willing to give up anything, even her soul to find a cure.
Other thing, from her childhood until now, she is very sensitive to my facial expressions. when I am sad or worry or even on pain, she is asking me, why am I sad? to see sadness in my face, drives her crazy. I try to smile all the time when she is around, but sometimes she could feel my discomfort, and it is one of the reasons for her melt downs, beside her PMS.



Thank you so much for the update. Later today I will send you a private message unless you don't want this to happen (you will get an email alert through the WP system that you have a private message). I have some suggestions re your daughter. Wow what a big step you took reaching out for help! Good for you! That's a tremendous achievement. I hope that person is able to help you; if not, there will be others who can. It's sometimes a process to find the one who best fits, though you have to start somewhere, and so you have taken that action. I really admire you.


Thank you for replying to my question. You mentioned about a private message. But I didn't receive any messages. I would love to hear your suggestions.



I haven't receive any messages. I send you a message did, you receive it?



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06 Sep 2015, 3:56 pm

No, no message has arrived in my inbox during the last 48 hours. Drat.