Does anyone else hate being called "over-sensitive"?

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17 Nov 2015, 1:53 pm

Cockroach96 wrote:

I'm not abusive, just blunt and direct.
Catlover5, why do you always tell me to "just stop"? You're attacking my freedom of expression.

Can't say about before. But again, Catlover5 did not tell you to stop. The actual quote is "Please, just stop."

And, yes, you are abusive.

BTW, good to know about the Rant thread.....good place to know about.

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17 Nov 2015, 1:55 pm

Catlover5 wrote:

There you go again. Pulling the freedom of expression card to try to justify whatever you say and take away everyone else's right to react badly in any way to it. I know I'm not just speaking for myself here; it gets frustrating when people like you go on about how awful it is to be an Aspie and pass your negative vibes on to everyone around you. There are people on here who want to be happy. They don't want someone to come along and essentially say they can't be happy just because they have Asperger syndrome. Like I've said before, there's nothing wrong with being angry or upset, just don't spread it to everyone else. You can go to the rant thread and talk about how you feel as much as you like, and as much as you need to to get it off your chest, there's no harm in that. I think the problem people have with you is that you're letting your anger out in too many places.

Maybe you should stop playing the victim card.
By saying you are sensitive you're putting a shield in front of you and telling people that they can't disagree with you because you'll get offended. This is the Internet, wake up!

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17 Nov 2015, 1:56 pm

Cockroach96 wrote:

Who's playing the victim card?

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17 Nov 2015, 1:56 pm

Catlover5 is playing the victim card.
This thread was OK until for some reason he told to me "just stop". Now it's going downhill and it's his fault.

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17 Nov 2015, 2:00 pm

Cockroach96 wrote:

I never said people can't disagree with me. What is and isn't offensive is subjective. You on the other hand are telling people that they can't disagree with you and calling them "over-sensitive" when they have an opinion that is different to yours.

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17 Nov 2015, 2:01 pm

Cockroach96 wrote:

Catlover5

I would not say that. I would say that Catlover5 is more frustrated and even offered a better place to display such negativity.

Rather than accept it and actually go to a place where you can be this way, you choose to stay here and bait people.

That says more about you than Catlover5.

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17 Nov 2015, 2:04 pm

I think you should both just take a minute before this blows up too much.

You both know you are opposite poles on this subject and are unlikely to come to a compromise right now.

Cockroach, you know you can rub people up the wrong way, you admitted it on the previous page.

The internet does not have to be harsh, again just take a break for a minute.

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17 Nov 2015, 2:05 pm

Catlover5 wrote:

When did I tell people they can't disagree with me?
On the contrary, I'm a supporter of freedom of thought and expression.
You say you're sensitive, but on the other hand you are one audacious son of a gun. Because you put words in my mouth and accuse me of being abusive when I've done nothing wrong to you.

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17 Nov 2015, 2:07 pm

i am generally oversensitive. don't mind being called on it as long as my concerns aren't written off.

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17 Nov 2015, 2:09 pm

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17 Nov 2015, 2:11 pm

And now you have the audacity to take what I said out of context.

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17 Nov 2015, 2:13 pm

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17 Nov 2015, 2:15 pm

Cockroach96 wrote:

Because you put words in my mouth and accuse me of being abusive when I've done nothing wrong to you.

As far as I have seen, Catlover5 has not twisted any of your words the way you have attempted to do so yourself. That's what makes you abusive.

You have basically come into a thread about over sensitivity and then done everything you can to belittle and twist things to people who are/may be overly sensitive.

You've used every justification possible. Basically, it reminds me of bullying. I have seen your other threads. You are a completely insensitive individual. That's fine. But, to purposefully come to a thread about sensitivity and then belittle someone over it seems predatory in nature.

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17 Nov 2015, 2:21 pm

Actually Catlover5 has a grudge against me for some reason and is trying to chase me away. But I'm not backing off.
Why are you joining his side when it has become clear he is a manipulative bully?

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17 Nov 2015, 2:22 pm

Woo-hoo, the first time anyone has ever called me a bully on here :roll:

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17 Nov 2015, 2:24 pm

That's because you are one. You are using your sensitivity as an excuse for telling people what to post and how to post.

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