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I have to use 'scripting' to communicate with other people. Whenever I need someone's help with something, I ordinarily begin my sentence with, "I am trying to ascertain how to....". It is embarrassing because I possess no verbal flexibility at all.
I do this too. Using repeated formal phrases is a way to be clear, and I actually appreciate people who speak in this style because I can immediately understand what your intentions are. I have observed most people speak in this way to some degree - just using idiosyncratic turns of phrase. So you shouldn't be embarrassed - everyone does this in their manner of speech to some extent and you never know, someone like me may actually appreciate the cliffnote.
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I think it's more a matter of cognitive processing impairments rather than intellect though. People who know me online tell me I am very intelligent. But when put to the test in real life I struggle greatly with simple things that come naturally easy for most.
Same here. I've been told this is due to the inconsistency of autism. I have been told I have a high IQ, but a
very low functional ability. Which means I can understand perfectly well and it seems ridiculously simple, but once I go to try and
do whatever it is, my brain cannot process. Which is extremely frustrating. Whatever I'm trying to do may be incredibly simple to understand, but impossible to actually do.
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Alexithymia - 147 points.
Low-Verbal.