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I was starting to have problems at school when i left ( sorry for the lack of periods my keyboard is messed) The way I solved this is i started working out i got my dad to buy me weights and then (i know this is a bad solution but i wanted to stop it while i could) beat the crap out some kid who kept harassing me by throwing my lunch on the ground and things like that it solved my problem fairly well but then i had kids who disgusted me that thought i was cool that wanted to hang out with me



Ben your friendly geek

My easiest anwser for all of you tell someone, not necessarily on here.
Don't play hero, that will get you killed.
Tell the police even.
By the way, Allofficers I have spoken to have never heard from a bully getting back at the target that brought them to jail.
The criminal just picks on someone else.

If you feel intimidated, remember who the coward really is. Would the bully go after someone larger then them?

I never got bullied from birth to 15 - then it started at 15. It wasn't exactly bullying, but it wasn't very nice. In my very last year of school I had made a friend who I wanted to be friends with for a long time, but just didn't get round to it. So finally I became her friend and I felt happy. Her name was Megan and she was very shy too, and never thought anything I said was ''weird''.
But I also had another friend who was forriegn, called Kioli - and she liked me for a while, then started to get everyone to think she was really sociable and cool, just to make me feel more lonely and stupid than I already was.
And then she tried telling lies about me to Megan, which made her not want me either. All the teachers said it was just a phase of ''typical teenage girls'' they were going through, but I knew that wasn't true because it didn't seem to be happening to anyone else I knew. I saw them all in big groups laughing and socializing, and so I thought, ''why can't that be me?''
So I told the teachers that, and they just said Kioli must be a horrible person, but I knew that wasn't true either, because if she was a horrible person she'd be doing that to everyone - which I knew she wasn't.
She then started to call me ''weird'', and ''loner'' and ''problem girl'' and ''the thing no-one would want to be friends with'', and so on.
Then on the day after I was absent, Kioli said to me that the teacher called my name during registration (or roll call), and one of the boys said ''smells'' after she said my name and everyone in the whole class laughed and laughed - even the teacher did.
I believed part of it - but I didn't believe that the teacher laughed because she was the special needs teacher, and I was a special student to her, and she knew what I was going through.

And all the while, Megan was trying to be my friend - until the school year was up, (and so was our school life) and Kioli left our lives, and me and Megan stayed on another year in Sixth Form - and it was the best year of our lives.

(ps. I didn't use their real names)