Small Talk

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Arhcers rule. Goths rule. Rowers rule. Metalheads rule.

Good point.

[ Just some random small talk chatter that I tell my girl, she hears stuff like this from me now and then, some I wrote a while back. ]


Ow these naughty things i feel, can they be real? this girl is shining through to me, her smiles so bright and her wanting lusts for my words a delight, ow how i would love to touch her soul and be body with my body's rhythm and flow, tender hearts touching and becoming one in the darkest of the midnight sun.


Aww your the fruit of my eyes, your lips like the sweetest cherries, your skin like the coconuts milk to my lips, your eyes like the wildest honey wine that could be drank by mine own eyes, your hair like the best strawberry's to pass before my nose as grown wild in the garden of eden, your fingers and your toes as sweet and tasty as that of vanilla freshly made before my soul, and your body so supreme that no chocolate could hold up to that dream.

Together in a spring meadow if you run i shall catch
thee, making you giggling while i make love to thee,
smothered in a thousand kisses as passion fills our
vision, day turns to dark delights while time fades
out of our sight, two impassioned souls entwined
becoming as one while the scent of the wild flowers
fills our lungs.

Hi all,
I just joined the site and have been reading this topic from July. As for myself, most of those who know me know better than to try to engage me in "small talk" It seems as if they ask me the time of day, then I'm going to "build them the watch". In other words, they will never get a standard cookie-cutter answer like "fine" to a question like "How are you?" If they dare ask such a question they are going to get an ear full of truth about what is actually going on at the moment. My problem is, that there are a few who don't seem to want to give up trying to pry a "normally expected" response out of my mouth. How do I deal with these persistent pests? How do I convince them to either get to the pointe of their purpose of conversation with me or move on to a "real" subject? Casual acquaintences I can shuck off easily by telling them to their face that in my culture, SMALL TALK IS FOR SMALL MINDS. This approach obviously isn't suited for the workplace, unless I want to change workplaces frequently. The best I've been able to do at my job is "change the subject".

My first post on this forum! Wow! That weird and wonderful lubricant of social interraction called Small Talk! A series of polite exchanges that apparently satisfies the participants that some form of communication is taking place. I think I admire the behaviour of animals who "say" what is relevant, rather than the contrived waffle without which so many humans would be at a loss. I find I've got into the habit myself of asking someone how they are without expecting a meaningful reply, and when I've not been feeling too well, have replied that I'm fine rather than answer truthfully. How I wish we could all communicate honestly and freely, whereas the irony is that most of the people we meet are the ones likely to regard those who are aspergic as the uncommunicative ones!
I feel like advising people to say nothing to me unless it is useful, interesting, profound or hilarious! Fortunately I seem to be able to introduce topics into conversations with others which I feel we can enjoy discussing, but there are many scenarios I have had to avoid so as to avoid situations wherein I feel quiet alienated. Perhaps the most alienating aspect of being in a group is the ongoing topics that people discuss informally that don't take into account the newcomer who hasn't a clue what they're on about!
I've not read more than a few posts here but already feel "at home" where we can talk openly about how we perceive ourselves and others. Know Thyself!

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