Hi Ms. Chess,
I can say, with at least some confidence, that you probably look good at present. And your verbal presentation, inevitably, enhances your looks
If you, all of a sudden, started to abuse drugs/alcohol after 2002, or smoked like a chimney, then the result could be different. I don't find that many people "lose their looks" unless they abuse drugs/alcohol. Or smoke a lot of cigarettes.
The gray streaks in one's hair actually enhances a person. It makes the person seem wiser.
In many people, "laugh lines" are actually appealing. At least you don't have a jowl. My older brother developed a jowl; I hope I don't develop one. He's sort of a cynic; I believe his cynicism caused him to develop that jowl.
I learned something new; I never knew what an "enneagram" was. It's a nice design for a necklace.
Egad! I am in my Vernacular Mode. There is no eloquence in the above.