Are you openly A.S (on the spectrum) ?

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I’m very open about it. People are going to see something’s weird about me anyway, so they should know why. I work for the school news magazine and have written multiple articles about autism, including one that won an award. I am also an extremely skilled copy editor, which is my Aspie talent, so I like showing people that many of us can do things just as well as and even better than many NTs.

Originally I was not open about my being on the spectrum. Need to know basis basically some family. Now that I am disabled, I have let most anyone that I know that I am on the spectrum. I openly advocate for it as well on FB and Twitter. Not one to care about losing false friends and such, I'd rather communicate with those that know the real me. Not the pretend me I did for most of my life so I could do a crummy job of fitting in so I could lead a "normal" life....

This is going surprisingly well.

Mostly, need to know until now; friends, family and a few others. But if someone notices something odd about me and wants an explanation, I tell them what it is usually, and anyone with more than a passing acquaintance could identify me on-line easily enough.

I'm slowly coming round to Wolfram's position of being open by default, unless I have reason to believe it would be unwise (my bigot radar is generally pretty good, I think.) I think it does make it harder for us to gain better acceptance if people don't know who we are - examples from people's personal experience will always trump lists of traits and awareness campaigns IMHO. Of course, that has to be a personal choice, I would never, ever condone "outing" someone against their wishes.

I'm open about it, but not proud. People can tell immediately that something's up with me, and I figure it's best if they know what it is rather than coming to their own, probably incorrect, conclusions. Yet I feel really awkward bringing it up myself, so I usually will only tell people if they ask. Although now, I have a service dog whose vest says "Autism Service Dog" on it and has the program's name, "Paws 4 Autism," all over it, so nowadays, pretty much everyone knows. And I view my being on the autism spectrum as simply a fact, not something to be proud, or ashamed, of.

Not open about it at the moment. My mom knows, a previous friend knew and that's it.

I don't necessarily hide it, but I don't really know when/where it would be appropriate to bring that up to people. I've started to not really care about it, in the sense that if someone is going to make fun of me for it or use it against me, then they're dead to me - simple as that. So I might be more open about it in the near future.