Are You Asexual?

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^Surely you can be religious and still desire sex? What's wrong with that? Whether you actually get it or not is a different thing and if you're waiting until you're married, you may be in for a long wait. I get the impression from the above and other posts of yours that you don't go out much. I may be wrong though.

I'm asexual and have known it since before I was a teenager even though I had no words for it. AVEN opened up my eyes a good many years ago with the definition of asexuality and other terms besides.

However, in my late teens and 20s I tried sex and its variations with a number of boyfriends. It wasn't often enough for them so we broke up.

Other people having sex and talking about it doesn't bother me. It's a very natural thing, why else would there be so many people on the planet? It's just not for me and I'm happy being single.

Heteromantic asexual. I can have romantic feelings for guys, but never sexual. I never want to kiss or do anything sexual.

Religion took my desire for sexual activities out. It's good. I do not want to commit mortal sin of lust. My nature feels need of physical contact with woman, even asexual. My parents and siblings rather do not have mental disorders, i am the "black sheep". My nature regrets that my sister has not ASD, having a sister or brother with high-functioning autism might satisfy my non-sexual "romantic" needs despite not having a spouse and offspring. My mentality might want to have children for fun, for having "pet animals". Wife may look for it as the main "pet animal". Cats are sweet and cute, but they are rather dirty and defecate and urinate, (commonly) not to the toilet. I would rather not sleep with a cat. I can have dreams about asexual sleeping with autistic wife in one bed. Woman can be very beautiful, but not sexually attractive.

I have/had a high sex drive but i would just handle it myself & I take meds to reduce it nowadays. I'm sort of demisexual in that I don't desire sex outside of a serious romantic realtionship.