I got an Email from USAtoday saying they may publish my letter after editing. this is what I sent back to them:
Dear Ken,
Your letter to the editor of USA TODAY is being considered for
publication. Before publishing a letter, however, we need to verify
several things:
1. Does USA TODAY have permission to publish your letter? Yes, but I feel you need to publish this disclaimer that was published here: http://www.autism.fm/ as well.
2. Does the letter contain only your own thoughts and words? Yes, but it was written before I saw that disclamer.
3. Know that the letter cannot be considered if it has been submitted to
other news sources. Only leter I sent out.
4. Please confirm the spelling of your name, and your city and state. Its good.
5. Know that your letter will be edited for clarity, accuracy and space
considerations. Thanks for your time and interest in USA TODAY. May we
print the following edited letter? Yes, but please include that fact the doctors in the article was misquoted.
I am a 39-year-old man who was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome only
four years ago. I have a good job and many friends. I am glad USA TODAY
has brought attention to the syndrome, but the article included some
stereotypes of people living with this condition ("A long shadow is
lifted on Asperger's in adults," News, July 24).
Research scientist Katherine Tsatsanis, who works with the Yale
Developmental Disabilities Clinic, said dating and close relationships
aren't in line with "Asperger's adults' goals."
People I know with Asperger's syndrome want to have friends, and some
would like to have children. Many people, including me, want good
friendships and would like to date.
The effects of having the condition just make these wants difficult to
fulfill. People with Asperger's don't get body language or social cues
as easily as those who don't have the condition. This makes it harder
for us to really understand what other people are tying to communicate
to us, and it's something we have to work on. People who don't have
Asperger's need to be honest with those who do have the condition and
communicate clearly. Insinuating that everyone with Asperger's just
wants to be alone is not right and shows that more research needs to be
done on the condition.
I don't want them to publish the letter and make it look like those doctors were not misqouted.