risingphoenix wrote:
I've read often times now that Aspie children tend to be bossy and dominating when playing with others and cannot accept any compromises (as far as I understood it). Is that true for all? Or could the quality of problems with interacting also manifest themselves in another kind of way? What is with the reverse kind for example, i.e. when a child is too passive, undemanding and/or quiet?
Personally I wasn't bossy when playing with other children as far as I remember. I mean, I often had firm suggestions on what to play or how to play it and wasn't too happy with compromises I suppose, but I could accept them.
When It came to toys I played alone, usually. I am very strict when it comes to toys. I beat a little girls head against the floor screaming when I was young because she cut off my Xuxa's(doll)hair. I think i was between -10 yrs old then. I slapped my cousin around when I was 5 for messing with my bday presents of lotion. Bit one of them when I was like, 4? Once I let all my cousins march out with my toys because mom said she wanted me to have friends and they said they would if i let them, that made mom mad telling me why did i go and do that that I should not have, and it confused me. I still have a thing for objects.
My mom always tried to hide there was something different about me I think.
Been playing an mmorpg lately, gettinga bit more social but i do really bad in groups of more than 2-3 and makes me start stimming.