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28 Oct 2007, 8:18 pm

I freeze, stutter, wander off topic, and forget what I'm saying.

I basically come off as a brain-dead middle age housewife that every now and then actually manages to say something intelligent enough to leave those around me at the time wondering "where the heck did that come from?". 8O


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28 Oct 2007, 8:30 pm

Similar but I am more hyper and tend not to speak much of negative emotions and when I do, it is said in a factual sort of way.



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28 Oct 2007, 8:37 pm

I talk exactly like I post.



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28 Oct 2007, 9:54 pm

My speaking and posting habits are pretty similar. I pretty much always speak very informally and I include that in my posts. I'll say things like "kinda" and "sorta" and I'll type contractions that I would use while speaking, though I'm not sure they're considered official contractions, like "I'da" and "shouldn't've."

I think the only real difference is that I'll wander onto other topics while speaking, but not generally while posting.



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28 Oct 2007, 10:27 pm

Griff wrote:
Adrie wrote:
In posts, most of you seem to be clear and intelligent. Are you like this when you speak in real life as well?
I actually speak in parantheses a lot. It's scary to some people. And I go absolutely crazy when people try to respond to me mid-paragraph, and I'll be like, "huh? I thought is was my turn so speak??"

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In real life, I am rarely clear when I speak. I stop, backtrack, and am always saying, "Oh, that reminds me..." and spinning off to another point, while people give me confused stares. This is when my mind is really going.
That's what parentheses are for, dude. Use them well.

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Other times I freeze up and can only think in the simplest of terms. At these times - when I am very nervous - my brain refuses to grasp abstract concepts, and I can't think of a single intelligent word to add to a sentence.
My great uncle pointed that out to me, so I just started talking more slowly and in shorter sentences. The queer thing is that, when I do this, I'm told I sound almost normal.

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Only when I talk about a special interest with people I trust does my IQ seem to skyrocket, and I magically become articulate. In posts, I feel I am not always as clear as I could be, but at least I have time to think of what I want to say. And yet still I ramble... :wink:
They're called parentheses. They work pretty well as long as the person you're talking to has a reasonable attention span.


Well, the parenthetical thought IS an AS symptom. Just today I spoke to a woman, and SHE seemed to think she knew what I was talking about, but was suprised to see it circle around and illustrate my point about what I was talking about earlier! :lol:

I am trying to ramp my speech up to where it is closer to what it once was. I did have to dumb it down. Even now, I may forgo a lot of detail simply because even some things OBVIOUS, to me, are foreign to others.

The idea of atomic processes in a dynamic multitasking environment, for example, sends some peoples heads SPINNING! They will ask what the term ATOMIC means and when you explain that it is a self contained process that runs without being affected by things like task switching, and you are using it to prevent race conditions, you will be met with blank stares and more questions. Even DBAs that claim to have programmed before don't seem to understand it even if you say "Well, it is the same as a lock on a database!". I usually just end up giving up on the explanations.

I definitely used to be better. I am trying a bit harder to improve things, even as I am trying to enforce what I know, and learn new things.



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29 Oct 2007, 1:33 am

Does my accent show up, in my posts?


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29 Oct 2007, 1:49 am

No, I don't speak very much in real life and when I do it's often a mess. I'll either be speaking too quietly, not clearly, or mix words around. When I'm comfortable with people I'm a bit better, but it still can be hard to get my thoughts into words. I tend to speak the best when I'm talking about myself or some interest.


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29 Oct 2007, 2:35 am

I post how I talk. I am overly verbose and formal a lot of the time.

Of course, I'm also Australian, so I swear a lot more in person than I do on these ****ing forums.

:oops: Sorry.


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29 Oct 2007, 2:41 am

Adrie wrote:
In posts, most of you seem to be clear and intelligent. Are you like this when you speak in real life as well?

In real life, I am rarely clear when I speak. I stop, backtrack, and am always saying, "Oh, that reminds me..." and spinning off to another point, while people give me confused stares. This is when my mind is really going.

Other times I freeze up and can only think in the simplest of terms. At these times - when I am very nervous - my brain refuses to grasp abstract concepts, and I can't think of a single intelligent word to add to a sentence.

Only when I talk about a special interest with people I trust does my IQ seem to skyrocket, and I magically become articulate. In posts, I feel I am not always as clear as I could be, but at least I have time to think of what I want to say. And yet still I ramble... :wink:



kuiamalynne wrote:
I'm much clearer, and far more articulate, when I write. I have a difficult time gauging audience when I speak -- I never know when I've said too much or not enough, to be honest. So, I rotate between bouts of being super silent and super talkative, and I often feel like I'm monologuing at people rather than dialoguing with them.

I do know that, like many of you all, if the conversation subject interests me, I keep rambling on, and I do sound intelligent (at least, I think I do). If I'm not interested, I plain just don't know what to say, and, consequently, I say little or nothing at all. Sometimes, this has to do with processing: I want to say something, and I'm possibly even interested in the topic at hand, but my brain doesn't deliver words or ideas to my mouth fast enough, so all I can do is mumble.



I really identify with these two posters. I didn't read the other 2 pages yet, but I figured what these two said sums up how I am.


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29 Oct 2007, 4:25 am

Nope.

(The whole I don't speak to people thingy, unless I know you or you're a professional; I don't really talk much then either.)

As I say, I'm a walker rather than a talker.



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29 Oct 2007, 6:08 am

I talk in much the same way as I post. My use of language is the same. I can find words here more easily than when I talk, though, and in real life I tend to speak more about my interests, while talking less in general.


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29 Oct 2007, 6:25 am

I don't talk like I post most of the time, because a) I'm German, so no talking in English for me :( and b) my thoughts are always so unorganized that it's a miracle anyone ever gets what I'm saying ;) Although I randomly change topic in some posts, too.



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29 Oct 2007, 6:38 am

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29 Oct 2007, 8:33 am

I wish I could speak mostly in sign language and typing back and forth. I know that sounds weird but I hate talking most of the time. Unless I'm really excited about something, then you can't shut me up.


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29 Oct 2007, 8:44 am

It depends. It it is simple scentences like these, then it is similar to the way that I talk, but in real life, I use more contractions, and I don't use too many larger words hardly at all when I speak, only when I write. Overall, I'm much more articulate when I write than when I speak. It seems I could write a very eloquent speech, but speaking it out is a whole different story.



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29 Oct 2007, 9:29 am

I seem to be the reverse of most of the people hear,
I can talk till I go blue i use lots of big words,
some times I even have something resembling a point.
But text lots harder, cant spell, no affinity for grammar,
and things that would just flow out when I am talking
just suddenly get stuck, leaving me with a point I want to make
but no ability to commutate it.


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