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21 May 2008, 4:04 pm

Here's a video from back in my day about a teacher like that:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S6e8aOdPxhI[/youtube]



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25 May 2008, 5:05 am

what helps for me is to turn the sadness into anger, usually by searching somebody to blame. then, you need to let go of the anger, by expressing yourself.
I sing (well, sing...) in a blackmetal band. nothing like screaming till your throat feels like being on fire.
for some reason I feel much better afterwards. mostly because I feel so exhausted then that I fall asleep on the spot. and everyone knows that sleeping is the best way to see the other side of things. well, waking up actually. not the sleeping.



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25 May 2008, 8:34 am

Thanks for all the help and advice. I don't feel as depressed or sad anymore. But yesterday, I guess I was feeling the "aftermath" or something of a week of depression. I was very unmotivated and didn't want to do anything. I felt this weird pressure on my chest and didn't even want to get out of bed. I couldn't cry like I did on Wednesday to feel better, no tears would come out.

I just laid down on my bed for a few hours moving my finger across the wall feeling the bumps.



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25 May 2008, 8:56 am

archdude wrote:
Hyzera wrote:
Today, the teacher gave us back our 3 day tests. He curved it under the combined average of the highest score of the males and females. He curves every test he gives us since no one has ever gotten a 100 on his tests without a curve. People call him the inventor of calculus. That's how tough he is.

Before He passed out the tests, someone asked him who he curved the scores under. He looked through the stack of tests he had in his hand, and said it was me. That meant I got a 100, which really surprised me since I always get 60-70s on his tests. After he said my name, he said "I still hate you." I instinctively blurted out "I hate you too."

A few minutes later, he said "Oops, I didn't curve it under you." When I heard that, my heart sank. That meant I didn't get a hundred. He gave me the test, and it was a 97.

I looked through the test and started beating myself up again. For one question, I did the work and got the correct answer, but forgot to circle an answer choice. For another question, I did the work and got the correct answer, but circled a different answer choice. I recalculated my score to see what I would've gotten if I hadn't been such an idiot, and it was a hundred.

I basically walked home feeling mad and a bit depressed. At least it wasn't as worse as yesterday.

Well, first I agree with what Tharn said. A 97 is a good score and you should be proud of yourself for that. If you've gotten 60-70s in the past that is remarkable improvement and it shouldn't be as hard to go from 97 to 100 as it was to go from 70 to 97. Even if you do get 100 though just staying in the 90s will be great.

Second, after hearing the teacher say he hates you, I am more convinced than ever that while he may be good at his subject matter, he is a rotten teacher and an even worse human being. Maybe I'm missing something, had you said something to provoke him just before that? If so, then maybe he could be forgiven for losing his temper. But it sounds like this was unprovoked and completely unjustified. You should try not to let what this tool says bother you. I know, easier said than done, but try to remember that he must really be a pathetic little man inside if he thinks he has to act this way.


GEE, You didn't read what hyzera said! He did NOT earn a 97! He was GIVEN 97! If the highest scoring person in the class got 50, then hyzera got 48! We, of course, don't know if the score was 9, or 90, but we DO know it wasn't 97.

BTW If NOBODY gets 100, EVER, he is NOT a good teacher! The teachers job is SUPPOSED to be to give everyone the OPTIMUM chance to learn EVERYTHING presented, which must be AT LEAST the required concepts, and test ONLY on that stuff! If he wants to test other things, GREAT, but THAT should be extra credit.



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25 May 2008, 9:22 am

The curve was only 3 points. I could've gotten a 100 if I didn't make stupid mistakes (Forgetting to circle answers).
He curves every test because he's one of the toughest teachers in the school. (According to him.) The seniors call him the 'Inventor of Calculus'

He gave us a practice sheet once, I showed one of the questions to a Junior (I'm a freshman) and the Junior couldn't solve it.

But I do need to google some of his lessons at times, since I didn't understand the way he taught it.



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26 May 2008, 3:31 am

Just try to take your mind off it. Watch something you like on t.v, read a magazine or book, exercise.