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29 Aug 2008, 6:54 pm

what you said makes sense and yes i know i only complain on that i whant to run away but being told not to isnt the reason

so any help is welcome so i can try it not like it would be useless to get any healthy advice on how to restructure my life a bit*

but going to sleep soon



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29 Aug 2008, 7:04 pm

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tomamil wrote:
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ive been wrestling with unescapable problems for years now tought about 100solutions always eventualy come up with a bad end

i never understood this. if someting is unescapable than you cannot escape it. and this is not just AS related problem. i've seen a lot of NT's trying to fight with unsolvable problems. it's like people keep refusing the idea of giving up, but how can you solve something that has happened and doesn't have a solution anymore? you just don't. the only thing one can do is to accept the consequencies and get used to it. focuse on what you want, not on what you don't want.

there is one solution and thats running away from this crap house and all my problems i know people say that running away from your problems doesnt work but i dont really care cause doing nothing is not quite of a good solution to living like this will definetly get me mentaly crazy im sure of it its only a matter of time


Hey man, I know how you feel, I was in your situation..

I played sports when i was little, but only to please my family.. I stopped and my dad always wanted me to play sports but I didnt want to and it made me hate sports.. Ive never seen the big deal about it anyways its a waste of time.. games to me are not the same as sports. i like thinking or strategic things, but never sports it seems..
I live on the other side of the country from most of my family accept for my brother, And I tell you, it's better off that way.. I get along with every one in my family when i dont see them.. :oops: If there is something wrong and your mind is unstable then maybe you just need to give yourself space and do your best.. If they get in your face you just say no.. dont even argue just say no with force.. maybe they'll get the point..

'prometheuspann', have you ever needed someone to talk to because you were feeling low?.. dont you think its kind of annoying to ramble on about things he doesnt wanna hear?.. keep it simple man.. you cant help by being a brainiac, everyone is different.. you can only help by relating to him and working off of that from your personal experience..



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30 Aug 2008, 2:53 am

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what you said makes sense and yes i know i only complain on that i whant to run away but being told not to isnt the reason

so any help is welcome so i can try it not like it would be useless to get any healthy advice on how to restructure my life a bit*

but going to sleep soon


nothing wrong with complaining; i don't think you are finished yet. You need to get it out of your system, GO.

That will give me now, an actual listener whos truly present with you the information i need to start.

don't just wail and sigh and cry and emote. In a detailed fashion, list for me your greivance and your problems and whats going on thats not working for you.

B. I'd be happy also to chat with anybody on your behalf.

C. I hated sports till my early 20s when i got involved in some things that finally interested me.


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30 Aug 2008, 4:18 am

Demons!! !!



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30 Aug 2008, 6:29 am

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Demons!! !!

what are you talking about?



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30 Aug 2008, 9:30 am

they only come out when you can release them to me.
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what you said makes sense and yes i know i only complain on that i whant to run away but being told not to isnt the reason

so any help is welcome so i can try it not like it would be useless to get any healthy advice on how to restructure my life a bit*

but going to sleep soon


nothing wrong with complaining; i don't think you are finished yet. You need to get it out of your system, GO.

That will give me now, an actual listener whos truly present with you the information i need to start.

don't just wail and sigh and cry and emote. In a detailed fashion, list for me your greivance and your problems and whats going on thats not working for you.

B. I'd be happy also to chat with anybody on your behalf.

C. I hated sports till my early 20s when i got involved in some things that finally interested me.
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30 Aug 2008, 9:54 am

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C. I hated sports till my early 20s when i got involved in some things that finally interested me.

i think you misunderftstand me i like sport more than anything aslong as i stay here i wont be able to do it atleast when my leg is cured :?
it really hurts me much to think about that i cant grow good at something and my sporting-condition is lowering so very badly



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30 Aug 2008, 10:03 am

no i don't understand you until you tell me. all i was trying to share there is my own walk with sports.
So you knew better where i was coming from.

So this is good details then; your leg is injured?


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30 Aug 2008, 10:19 am

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no i don't understand you until you tell me. all i was trying to share there is my own walk with sports.

ok well i can understand what you mean to much social interactions in sports drive me crazy to but the sport itself i really like
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So this is good details then; your leg is injured?

yes it has a temporary injury but that doesnt matter it will go over once (altough its anoying)

but now the finishing slot "how do i continue my life"?

*offtopic: everytime i go to your site it takes a while to load very strange



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30 Aug 2008, 10:22 am

small badnwidth? i dunno.


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30 Aug 2008, 11:17 am

its almost school again :(
so i really could use some advice



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30 Aug 2008, 4:28 pm

great another topic die'ing :skull:
sorry but im desperet for advice please before school starts



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30 Aug 2008, 5:19 pm

Emotional abuse is nearly impossible to explain, especially if you are a kid. Your mind has been deliberately twisted so that you can't think. That's the point of the abuse.

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...so I couldn't stand it anymore and ran away and I never went back. That doesn't mean anything was any easier, though, I can tell you.
It certainly made my life better. I ran away a few times, then legally moved out at age 16, got a job and an apartment...

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running away will not help and you are not only running away from your bad situation and folks but also from yourself...
Not true. I was running away from my parents and the school, and it's the smartest thing I ever did. I'm still a basket case because of them, but I would have been far worse if I had stayed. The damage does not go away. It compounds, with every day you stay in a bad situation. Even if you manage to force yourself to act "normal" it's still there. It can go underground and come back years later.

I don't know where you are or how the laws work there.
I'm sending you a PM with my e-mail so you can talk to me directly, if that helps.



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30 Aug 2008, 6:53 pm

Finally, someone who understands! Sometimes things are so bad at home, living in an abandoned apartment with no food is better than that"free food and board" thing. At least for me. And I never went back.



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30 Aug 2008, 6:56 pm

god i cant explain how "home" i feel in this forum ^^
everyone seems to understand what with all the NTs wont get true :)



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30 Aug 2008, 6:58 pm

I'm not sure what that means. What country are you in,
and what is that"free food and board" thing?