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You seem like a perfectly nice person to me. I don't think people can be judged on how easily they get along with other people, of course.

I haven't seen you personally insult anyone, you've just got a little angry. I think that's fine really.

Thanx, I needed that. Suddenly everyone seem to think that I'm an a**hole, s**t, that ain't the case. Just try to mellow down, try to control my f*****g anger.
Just fine, I try not to offending anyone, but I sometimes use rude language just for the fun of it.

My temper gets me misunderstood all the time. You don't sound like a bad person at all.

And I think it's an innate thing to want to be taken seriously, not an egotistical thing.

Well it's that way for me anyway..

Language is fine. I don't see why some people get offended by words just because they've been told they are ruder than some other words- I get more offended by people who insult my character or lifestyle than I do by people calling me a 'b*****d' or 'f****r' etc.

I'm sure a lot of people on here accidently offend people or are tactless. I offend people all the time. I can't always figure out why but sometimes my honesty is taken for rudeness and I am known to make comments about people without thinking, for example, as a kid I remember getting yelled at for asking 'why has that woman got a big nose?' as said woman walked past me and my nan in the street. I wasn't being malicious. People missunderstand others all the time, particularly if in the case of ASDs where there is a clash of different ways of thinking.

I get angry easily myself. But I think us aspies and autistics have a lot to deal with so it's no surprise many of us are quick to anger. I tend to snap at people when I can't deal with the background noise as well as them talking to me at the same time and that's often misjudged as me being deliberately unpleasant towards them or disliking them.

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I really mean it. I might concider not leaving after all. I'm quite new to all af this, so, I'm glad someone seems to understand.

Mosez

It doesn't matter what anyone says about IQ relative to Aspergers. Because we live in an objective reality, anything we do or think is fundamentally more challenging and complex than NT's tend to. They construct false ego realities around everything they do, and so they live in the world of convenient delusion -- worlds that they sell to each other and bully and push each other over. The "normal IQ" world of an Asperger individual is much more intellectually meaningful and challenging than the "high IQ world of an NT.

The whole IQ thing about Asperger Syndrome is very misleading. Stick around, please.

Don't walk your brain or heart outta here. We all have to go through the introductory phase eh.

It's amazing how much intelligence resides on this site. Whenever I am not getting alot of takers, when i want to play, I simply drop playing and go and help people on the site for a while. Then when I go back to playing, people join!

I have never seen you before this post. You are only like on post 60 or something. The different areas, have different feels. And you do look like someone who could off someone, HA! Just a stereotypical uncalled for judgment there. LOL. Straight out of the movies face though.

Stay around and play for a while. It might work out for you. Just remember, we are all coming here for help, or relaxation, or creativity, or what ever it is we need.

Welcome to the Planet.

We're autistic, thus due to our extra sensitivity (only exacerbated by our bad past experiences) and our accidental brutal honesty, we constantly are accidentally offending each other and so forth...

I wouldn't worry too much about it.

But I think the best thing about this site, the very best thing, is that when someone has (or thinks they might have) been offensive, they back down and apologize. This shows real quality of character, and it's something you don't see on most forums.

It seems you have this quality of character. You seem like a really decent guy. I hope you stay (or at least, stop by now and again, as I admit I sometimes like to drop out for periods of time).

About the whole IQ thing, I understand where your anger is coming from. I don't mind it so much - when I was diagnosed with AS I was told I have average intelligence only, can't remember the last time I took an IQ test or what I got for it, but my grades at school have always been above average and everyone I know thinks I'm smart. Whether or not I'm smart is beside the point. The point I'm trying to make here is IQ is irrelevant in life, what's relevant is only what you make of yourself.

last IQ thread I saw here, I was the 'dumbest person in the room' with only 130..

I work at a research facility, and there's times where I go into labs where there are dozens of people....all smarter than I am...

and y'know... they all want to be seen as regular guys and gals!... So, it gives you an edge in some areas, but I'm sure there are hidden depths you haven't expressed yet.

In fact, we may understand you better than the outside world...

Thanx for replaying. Guess I let the rage lead the path again. I didn't mean the thing about the Iq, just had to hit somewhere. It's difficult coming to terms on that I maybe an AS or in the specter. It's hard. I'll try to cool down, or out, Is it?

It is what you want it to be You are you love! Try this awesome song, whenever you get mad. I swear it will help every time.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jLwy2QuVOUE

Hell yeah!

I have made sure to pass this to as many people as possible. Annie Lenox if so f*****g awesome, it hurts!

Um, i've never seen anyone mention their IQ on here.

acsually its script

We're autistic, thus due to our extra sensitivity (only exacerbated by our bad past experiences) and our accidental brutal honesty, we constantly are accidentally offending each other and so forth...

I wouldn't worry too much about it.

But I think the best thing about this site, the very best thing, is that when someone has (or thinks they might have) been offensive, they back down and apologize. This shows real quality of character, and it's something you don't see on most forums.

It seems you have this quality of character. You seem like a really decent guy. I hope you stay (or at least, stop by now and again, as I admit I sometimes like to drop out for periods of time).

About the whole IQ thing, I understand where your anger is coming from. I don't mind it so much - when I was diagnosed with AS I was told I have average intelligence only, can't remember the last time I took an IQ test or what I got for it, but my grades at school have always been above average and everyone I know thinks I'm smart. Whether or not I'm smart is beside the point. The point I'm trying to make here is IQ is irrelevant in life, what's relevant is only what you make of yourself.

Don't give up, this is your place to relax and feel comfortable. I have had the anger/rage issue all my life, more of a stress release then an attack any indivdual. If my anxiety and stress levels are alright I am very easy going and pleasant in nature.

I wouldn't worry about the IQ thing, people need positives to function in life and if this helps them manage, that is a good thing.

Social IQ is my biggest problem, around the idiot status I believe.

I think most of the people here, including me would like to trade some IQ for EQ.