Gary, you've developed a really constructive form of apathy. I tend to score high on the AQ type tests. It's funny because, I didn't even know what AS was until a few months ago, and I have known for a long time that something was really different about me. My main indicator is the lack of relationships, and then my inability to hear others' speech. However, I have an NT passable ability to make eye contact sometimes, but sometimes it's obvious that I really have to work at it or that I really don't want to (usually in an emotional situation). I see correlation with not being able to carry on a conversation about points of interest to others and not being able to hear conversations to try to find out what people are talking about. I have been in rooms where people were talking about me, and I couldn't make out the idea behind it. Unfortunately, these mistakes cost me dearly. I can improve without a DX, but not without support because I need specific problems to be addressed formally. A DX will help me too, but I can certainly figure a lot out on my own.