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18 Jan 2009, 2:31 pm

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I love that movie and cry about every time I watch it.

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18 Jan 2009, 2:33 pm

Silverman - Upside-Down Brilliance wrote:
Learning disabilities can be very difficult to detect in extremely bright individuals. This is because more abstract reasoning ability is available to compensate for weaknesses. When there is injury or less efficiency in the part of the brain that normally controls a function, compensation enables another part of the brain to take over the function. The more brain power, the greater the potential for compensation. This is good news and bad news. The good news is that learning disabilities can be more easily “overcome” or worked around when a person is smart enough to use other strategies to achieve desired goals. The bad news is that compensation makes it nearly impossible to diagnose the full extent of a disability. So if people can compensate for disabilities, why is it important to diagnose them? Because compensation is unstable. Sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesn’t.

Compensation breaks down when you’re stressed, tired, ill, injured, anxious, or encountering new situations. When compensation works, you feel like an imposter, and when it fails, you feel incompetent. Am I smart or am I stupid? Not a great basis for building self-esteem or setting high aspirations (Silverman, 2002, pp. 169-170)


This sounds familiar - when I am happy and relaxed (like now), I can function really well and even better than shy people in social situations. If I am stressed or tired (or especially depressed), I become completely unable to interact, to the extent of mutism. Its the same thing with face recognition - I am bad at it in terms of the special facial recognition thing that most people have, but because my general memory is good, I can often recognise enough features in a more abstract way (similar to remembering a place or some facts) to recognise people and therefore seem to be normal in that regard.



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18 Jan 2009, 2:34 pm

So - long story short - Autism is the Spectrum, Asperger's the wavelength....



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18 Jan 2009, 2:41 pm

merrymadscientist wrote:
This sounds familiar - when I am happy and relaxed (like now), I can function really well and even better than shy people in social situations. If I am stressed or tired (or especially depressed), I become completely unable to interact, to the extent of mutism. Its the same thing with face recognition - I am bad at it in terms of the special facial recognition thing that most people have, but because my general memory is good, I can often recognise enough features in a more abstract way (similar to remembering a place or some facts) to recognise people and therefore seem to be normal in that regard.


Silverman's book was a revelation to me. When I'm stressed I can't count money, dial the telephone, remember names, and sometimes even read simple phrases, etc. When I'm not stressed I do so well that sometimes I forget what the stress can do.

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18 Jan 2009, 3:43 pm

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I have found what all of you have written so far as very informative---even if there are still some areas that are confusing to all of us. I definitely am getting better educated on this. Thank you.

Now I am wondering if it would be normal for an Aspie to have had his mother wash his hair until he was 25---then have his wife wash it until he was in his late 20s because he couldn't? And the same with clothes---his mother had to lay out his clothes for him until he got married. For example, during the summer when my parents were working, I would stay in my pajamas until my mom came home on her break and got my clothes out (into high school).


Your posts in this forum have made me feel much better about my own situation. I know it's not the same, but I had a lot of developmental delays myself, which is one of the reasons I wonder whether it is AS that I have, although most symptoms fit. Those with AS are supposedly not developmentally delayed & I was. I still am, although I don't know if the delays I have now would be considered developmental or social. I didn't know how to tie my shoes until I was between 14-16. I couldn't brush my hair until I was 12. I played with Barbies til I was 14-16, along with some other toys I should have outgrown years before. I was just overall much "younger" than others my age, & still am in some ways.


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18 Jan 2009, 4:49 pm

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It was found that children and adolescents with Asperger's disorder presented with higher levels of psychopathology than those with high-functioning autism, were more disruptive, antisocial and anxious, and had more problems with social relationships.


Uh uh, we (AS) win ! ! :lol:



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18 Jan 2009, 4:58 pm

Sora wrote:
I didn't find many studies about the differences and similarities of HFA and AS here on WP. Only discussions between members.

Anyone who knows about more studies, please post.ed in individuals with Asperger’s disorder.
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I don't give a **** about studies; if you want truth, why not try some inventive googles, like: "gwynfryn autism as"



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18 Jan 2009, 5:11 pm

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What is meant by delay in speech development? Because I started talking late and I have AS.


To know what delayed is, you must know how a normal speech development is like. Most children start to say single words at the age of 1. But it's just as normal if they say their first words at 15 or even 20 months. Every toddler's a bit different. Some 2-year-olds say sentences like 'i want too' or 'i won't' or 'give ball' and some only say 'mommy' 'ball' and so on.

Children who have AS must start to say single words at the age of 2 like non-autistic children do.

If a child does not say single words at the age of 2, their speech is considered to be 'delayed'.

Children with AS are also supposed to use communicative phrases at age 3. Not sure what's meant by that though.


According to my mum, I started talking late and they where worried, I think I started talking at the age of 2 but I'm not certain that that is the exact age.


The normal milestones are supposed to be like first sound/word by 6mo, and talking 50% intelligible sentences by 2years. Children with AS are supposed to do it BY 3yo. My mother said I did better than that by about 10mo, instead of 2yo.



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18 Jan 2009, 5:18 pm

glider18 wrote:
I have found what all of you have written so far as very informative---even if there are still some areas that are confusing to all of us. I definitely am getting better educated on this. Thank you.

Now I am wondering if it would be normal for an Aspie to have had his mother wash his hair until he was 25---then have his wife wash it until he was in his late 20s because he couldn't? And the same with clothes---his mother had to lay out his clothes for him until he got married. For example, during the summer when my parents were working, I would stay in my pajamas until my mom came home on her break and got my clothes out (into high school).


WHY couldn't you wash your hair, or setout your clothes? I'm not judging, I am sincerely curious.



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18 Jan 2009, 5:24 pm

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I took one of those online IQ tests along with my wife. She took hers a few days before I took it. I, the Aspie, scored a 129. My wife, who is a NT, scored lower. But then I realized that there was a time limit. I took over an hour to take the test when it was supposed to be like a half hour or so.

But then, just how accurate are those tests? I guessed at some of the questions because I couldn't figure them out. I probably got some of the answers right that I guessed at. That isn't accurate. A person could guess their way to a good score. And, there were some questions on the test that I tried really hard to get right, while another day I may have said I am not going to work out that question---I don't care if I get it right or not. Then there is the question of the online IQ test being a valid test to begin with.


Those are two things I hate about things like IQ tests!

1. They are sometimes timed, and that makes me NERVOUS, and possibly careless.
2. Sometimes I just don't care to go on, or workout a problem. Of course, if it is going to be public(known to others), I try to do well in the time frame required.



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18 Jan 2009, 5:28 pm

2ukenkerl wrote:
glider18 wrote:
I took one of those online IQ tests along with my wife. She took hers a few days before I took it. I, the Aspie, scored a 129. My wife, who is a NT, scored lower. But then I realized that there was a time limit. I took over an hour to take the test when it was supposed to be like a half hour or so.

But then, just how accurate are those tests? I guessed at some of the questions because I couldn't figure them out. I probably got some of the answers right that I guessed at. That isn't accurate. A person could guess their way to a good score. And, there were some questions on the test that I tried really hard to get right, while another day I may have said I am not going to work out that question---I don't care if I get it right or not. Then there is the question of the online IQ test being a valid test to begin with.


Those are two things I hate about things like IQ tests!

1. They are sometimes timed, and that makes me NERVOUS, and possibly careless.
2. Sometimes I just don't care to go on, or workout a problem. Of course, if it is going to be public(known to others), I try to do well in the time frame required.


I never do well in IQ tests because I know that they are timed so that's all I think about, therefore I'm distracted so I don't concentrate properly.



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18 Jan 2009, 5:38 pm

Whatever you want to call classic/infantile high-functioing autism, I have that and not Asperger's. I had a major speech delay, spun wheels of cars and lined things up as a child, obsessed with numbers/letters since I was very little, and am still fine-motor impaired (I can not tie my shoes) However, when I was diagnosed my IQ was tested at above 154, so they said I'm high-functioning autistic.

Also, I've noticed that some people with Asperger's, especially here, their main struggle seems to be with social anxiety and feeling inferior, that isn't really the case with me. I don't make good eye contact and can't stand small talk but I don't ever think to myself, "I wish I was better at socializing" I'm probably closer to a Rain Man who you can have a somewhat normal conversation with then someone with AS who is depressed.


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18 Jan 2009, 5:55 pm

FerrariMike_40 wrote:
Whatever you want to call classic/infantile high-functioing autism, I have that and not Asperger's. I had a major speech delay, spun wheels of cars and lined things up as a child, obsessed with numbers/letters since I was very little, and am still fine-motor impaired (I can not tie my shoes) However, when I was diagnosed my IQ was tested at above 154, so they said I'm high-functioning autistic.

Also, I've noticed that some people with Asperger's, especially here, their main struggle seems to be with social anxiety and feeling inferior, that isn't really the case with me. I don't make good eye contact and can't stand small talk but I don't ever think to myself, "I wish I was better at socializing" I'm probably closer to a Rain Man who you can have a somewhat normal conversation with then someone with AS who is depressed.


Well,I think I have AS, and feel I am like most here that have AS in that, while I HAVE been clinically depressed, many might not even know it. I certainly DON'T feel inferior, and don't really have social anxiety. AND, like I said, HFA has no ceiling on the IQ. BTW people CAN converse with me. I don't care if it is a young girl that is 5 years old, with a 100 IQ or a old man that is 95 years old with a 160 IQ. If they stay away from sports, some pop culture, and a few other things, I can probably do well.
Then again, I try to be polite, and even some stuff I HATE I can handle well.



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18 Jan 2009, 6:26 pm

2ukenkerl wrote:
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I have found what all of you have written so far as very informative---even if there are still some areas that are confusing to all of us. I definitely am getting better educated on this. Thank you.

Now I am wondering if it would be normal for an Aspie to have had his mother wash his hair until he was 25---then have his wife wash it until he was in his late 20s because he couldn't? And the same with clothes---his mother had to lay out his clothes for him until he got married. For example, during the summer when my parents were working, I would stay in my pajamas until my mom came home on her break and got my clothes out (into high school).


WHY couldn't you wash your hair, or setout your clothes? I'm not judging, I am sincerely curious.


Good question. I preferred taking baths, but I would take showers if I had too. However, I would not wash my hair for two reasons: 1. I bathed at night---no need to wash hair until next morning. 2. I could not coordinate myself to put water over my hair comfortably in either the shower or tub. I had tried it and it was so awkward that I just could not do it. I can remember not being able to get my head in the proper position to get it right. It was a motor skills thing. Mom had to. So in the mornings when there was school, Mom would have me stand over the bathroom sink and pour warm water over my head and shampoo me. My wife did it the same way for me except we used the kitchen sink. I also would not dry my hair, it was like it was too awkward trying to move the brush around my hair and move the dryer back and forth---I just got too frustrated trying to do it.

As for clothes, I just could not bring myself to try to get the clothes out of the closet. It was like it was too confusing for me to pick them out and see if they coordinated. I mean, I still don't understand all of this to this day why I was like that. Mom would get upset with me for not being able to get my clothes out. I could dress myself ok. In the summer when my parents were at work, I just stayed in my pajamas until Mom came home on break and got clothes for me. Has to be some kind of quirk in me I guess. But I outgrew that in college sometime.

Sorry, but this is the best answer I can give for this.

I am currently investigating my childhood. I know another issue I had was in walking. I would turn my feet inward in walking and thus got bow legged out of it. I had to go into corrective shoes until my legs straightened out. Mom tells me that I just walked around with my toes pointing inward when I first started walking. So I guess it was my choice to walk that way from the start.

I hope this helps. If I can remember anything else I will try to respond with additional comments. Thanks for your interest.



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18 Jan 2009, 8:10 pm

Run-of-the-mill AS and HFA probably don't look much different in childhood and adulthood, i.e., either could be more severe than the other depending on each individual case, as they probably don't cluster into two perfectly distinct groups that the DSM-IV-TR implies (socially and emotionally distant for HFA compared to socially and emotionally odd and eccentric for AS).

When there's speech as an adult (which is 78% of those with LFA and HFA, and 100% of those with AS), I doubt there'll be much difference; even LFA is just defined by an IQ of 75 or under (which will only really affect how well someone does in schooling), not whether there is any specific set of symptoms or not (other than the core needed).

I suppose a problem arises when things like "mild" Asperger's are included, which seems to be common nowadays. Asperger's and HFA themselves are supposed to be "mild" by design due to a lack of learning disabilities compared to LFA. This border where AS merges into "normal" and "unimpaired" is the difficult part to define (you can add Semantic-Pragmatic Disorder here too).



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18 Jan 2009, 8:19 pm

http://www.psych.org/MainMenu/Research/DSMIV/DSMV/DSMRevisionActivities/DSMVWorkGroupReports/NeurodevelopmentalDisordersWorkGroupReport.aspx

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Questions still under active discussion for ASD include:
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5) Whether Asperger’s disorder is the same as “high-functioning autism”;


Last thread about this I also posted a link to a quote from Attwood indicating that he believes there are more similarities between individuals with AS and HFA than not.