WP members GF ill with cancer
which in french means what?
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UPDATE:
Finally managed to get another call through to her. She hasn't been able to answer much 'cause she's been sleeping alot.
Anyways, talked to her more about the cancer. She said another reason they knew to look for it, though she was kinda embarrassed to tell me at first, was that she had blood in her poop (bloody stools). Said how they found it was MRI, and that how they diagnosed it was a biopsy & a look under a microscope.
Still trying to get more info, and also trying to get her mom's number so i can talk to her too.
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I have questions.
1. Do you not have any relatives to ask to help you pay for the trip?
2. If you raise up enough for the flight then if you can't afford the flight then how are you going to afford food, a place to sleep amongst other things?
3. She has aspergers too?
4. How did you both meet?
1. Do you not have any relatives to ask to help you pay for the trip?
I've asked, yeah. i don't think anyone on my mom's side lives in an actual house. They're poor & living paycheck to paycheck for the most part. Besides that, my maternal grandma is dealing with the last chemo treatments for her breast cancer that she went in for a while back. & her brother, my uncle mark just died recently, & my stepgrandpa, her husband recently died of throat cancer. They have enough financial and emotional trouble of their own.
My dad's side isn't much better except for the most part they have houses, but still living paycheck to paycheck. & there's less people on that side so not as much support. In any case, they wouldn't be able to help much. I've made some inquiries and while i have their deep sympathy, i don't have much else...
2. If you raise up enough for the flight then if you can't afford the flight then how are you going to afford food, a place to sleep amongst other things?
In all probability, i'd stay at her mom's place where she currently is. Her mom likes me well enough. Failing that for any reason, i suppose i could visit Ferdinand since he lives in the area. Failing that i could stick it out with the local homeless until the return flight (round-trip, better safe than sorry.)
3. She has aspergers too?
Yup, she was diagnosed at 16. She also has ADHD & some anxiety problems
4. How did you both meet?
Random add on Myspace actually. It kinda started with just the "hello's" & talking about a similar interest, in that case the Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer, then we naturally got to talking about other things. turned out we had a hell of a lot in common and this was before she knew i had aspergers and before i knew she had aspergers. When we found that out it was kinda like "OMG, soulmates!" . We talked for about a month or so, then i asked her out
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You're all stupid and should be ashamed of yourself. I hate anyone who posts something stupid like "OMG HE IS SCAMMING" because you have to be the most conceited person in the world to do such a thing.
His girlfriend has cancer, for f***s sake. Stop spreading your cynical anti-hope BS and just shut your inbred piece of s**t mouth if you think he is doing something bad. Unlike what your mother told you, you are not that important. If anything, you are the opposite of that. So, shut up and finish masturbating to My Chemical Romance.
Geez.
1. Do you not have any relatives to ask to help you pay for the trip?
I've asked, yeah. i don't think anyone on my mom's side lives in an actual house. They're poor & living paycheck to paycheck for the most part. Besides that, my maternal grandma is dealing with the last chemo treatments for her breast cancer that she went in for a while back. & her brother, my uncle mark just died recently, & my stepgrandpa, her husband recently died of throat cancer. They have enough financial and emotional trouble of their own.
My dad's side isn't much better except for the most part they have houses, but still living paycheck to paycheck. & there's less people on that side so not as much support. In any case, they wouldn't be able to help much. I've made some inquiries and while i have their deep sympathy, i don't have much else...
2. If you raise up enough for the flight then if you can't afford the flight then how are you going to afford food, a place to sleep amongst other things?
In all probability, i'd stay at her mom's place where she currently is. Her mom likes me well enough. Failing that for any reason, i suppose i could visit Ferdinand since he lives in the area. Failing that i could stick it out with the local homeless until the return flight (round-trip, better safe than sorry.)
3. She has aspergers too?
Yup, she was diagnosed at 16. She also has ADHD & some anxiety problems
4. How did you both meet?
Random add on Myspace actually. It kinda started with just the "hello's" & talking about a similar interest, in that case the Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer, then we naturally got to talking about other things. turned out we had a hell of a lot in common and this was before she knew i had aspergers and before i knew she had aspergers. When we found that out it was kinda like "OMG, soulmates!" . We talked for about a month or so, then i asked her out
The original GF thread from earlier this year. I had to dig through almost a hundred pages of posts to find it
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt114037.html
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ANOTHER UPDATE:
also, got paypal working, idk why it never occurred to me before now just to put it on my myspace. I feel dumb. PM for details/myspace URL
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His girlfriend has cancer, for f**** sake. Stop spreading your cynical anti-hope BS and just shut your inbred piece of sh** mouth if you think he is doing something bad. Unlike what your mother told you, you are not that important. If anything, you are the opposite of that. So, shut up and finish masturbating to My Chemical Romance.
Geez.
My friend did prison time and one of the many cons he learned was how to take advantage myspace, facebook, message boards, and how to manipulate kind people to think they are helping you to get them to do all the leg work for you. Tricks to use are saying you have a terminal illness, broke up with an abusive partner, and about to become homeless. Other tricks are to get other people's pictures off myspace and photobucket so you could become anything you want to be. He said you should find sites set up by real families of the sick make a small donation and see if they will let you put the link to your site on it to get some spin off donationations from the people helping that family. Its freaking sick and a lot of people are doing it.
The guy who warned me about message boards spent his prison time writing to lonely female penpals who sent him money and stamps. He wrote to over thirty women he was making almost $12,000.00 a year off these women many of whom were single moms. When he was released from prison he had a women drive up from Ohio to take him home so his mom could save on gas money. He still writes to the women he wrote to in prison three of them are looking for work in the Buffalo area so they can be close to him. He is going to try to see if he can juggle all three or at least stay with the one who makes the most money. Scammers are out there and they brag to their friends on how much they are getting over on their suckers. Please do not become one.
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NO! you should be ashamed of yourself, I am giving him a heads up of what to expect if things are not true. I was also looking out for the people wanting to send their money to help get him a ticket to see a girl he has never met. They cannot even get their stories straight on what type of cancer she has. The he wants to send him money for nothing do not make much money some are on government assisstance the money they sent would have been better used to get medicine, food, pay rent, and utilities you would not understand this you are only 15 you still have your bills paid by your parents. You want something I am sure you can ask your parents for it these people have to work for what they have or have to wait for their small monthly check to come in.
Get your head out of your head out of your ass before you make another ignorant post! You lessen all Aspies with posts like that.
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His girlfriend has cancer, for f**** sake. Stop spreading your cynical anti-hope BS and just shut your inbred piece of sh** mouth if you think he is doing something bad. Unlike what your mother told you, you are not that important. If anything, you are the opposite of that. So, shut up and finish masturbating to My Chemical Romance.
Geez.
Anyone under 18 should have their Internet connections set to read-only mode. Where did all that come from?! What's with the hate?
We aren't suggesting he's a scammer. We are suggessting HE'S BEING SCAMMED and we want to help him. We are looking out for him! Just like we tried to look out for him when he wanted to date a 15 year old.
His girlfriend has cancer, for f**** sake. Stop spreading your cynical anti-hope BS and just shut your inbred piece of sh** mouth if you think he is doing something bad. Unlike what your mother told you, you are not that important. If anything, you are the opposite of that. So, shut up and finish masturbating to My Chemical Romance.
Geez.
Anyone under 18 should have their Internet connections set to read-only mode. Where did all that come from?! What's with the hate?
We aren't suggesting he's a scammer. We are suggessting HE'S BEING SCAMMED and we want to help him. We are looking out for him! Just like we tried to look out for him when he wanted to date a 15 year old.
Though obviously with that person things went down hill & i found somebody else.
& that's not even the issue, so why drag it up.
besides that, she's not asking me for money, i don't know how many times i have to say that.
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This is just to say that although I don't know, ( I simply *can't* tell from the info we have ), if his girlfriend is telling the truth or not, ( the facts seem rather *confused* aswell as incredible, which is often aspie style when under emotional pressure, so it may actually be true ), I do believe that sean is honest, and perhaps, as b9 said, it is sometimes better to give people the benefit of the doubt, so I've sent sean some money, by PayPal, towards his travel/plane flight. He isn't trying to raise money for anything else, and nor is the girlfriend ... so ... I wish him all the best getting there, and hope that whatever the truth is he comes out of it ok.
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Hey Ouinon, was Inception any good? I haven't seen it yet. I was going to one time 'cause i had a gift card i needed to use up but i got to the theater late, and ended up watching The Sorcerer's Apprentice.
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His girlfriend has cancer, for f**** sake. Stop spreading your cynical anti-hope BS and just shut your inbred piece of sh** mouth if you think he is doing something bad. Unlike what your mother told you, you are not that important. If anything, you are the opposite of that. So, shut up and finish masturbating to My Chemical Romance.
Geez.
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