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12 May 2018, 8:22 pm

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*shrug* You asked for evidence, I provided it. If you’re too lazy to make a few clicks and scrolls to confirm that’s on you, not me for not providing it.


I'm not going to go visit that address like you asked, or call that number you like you asked, and I'm not opening anything with my FB account.

I should not be required to nor asked to do any of those things.



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12 May 2018, 8:30 pm

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I know you mean well, but please be careful giving out your personal information.

You're a valued member here, and no one wants to see you get hurt.


I too am deeply worried when members give out identifying information. There are ratbags who can take advantage of this, and if you want it removed, I will be happy to assist though I won't be around until about 6 hours after posting this. Please think it over in terms of the dangers (like identity theft).


I posted it of me own free will and it can stay into perpetuity.

If EzraS is unwilling or incapable of confirming who and where I am via the information I provided, I will gladly share it with kraftiekortia, Raleigh, auntblabby, alex, or either of you.

No Grouse Grind tmw morning - Mark's wife needs them all home by 10:30am to get ready to go to some lake for Mother’s Day. Maybe next weekend.

I don't require any confirmation of your identity, thanks.
It's not like I'm going to 'swing by' your house from Australia.


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12 May 2018, 9:02 pm

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I know you mean well, but please be careful giving out your personal information.

You're a valued member here, and no one wants to see you get hurt.


I too am deeply worried when members give out identifying information. There are ratbags who can take advantage of this, and if you want it removed, I will be happy to assist though I won't be around until about 6 hours after posting this. Please think it over in terms of the dangers (like identity theft).


If you are referring to the PM's he sent me, A I'm not a ratbag and B I've already deleted them.



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12 May 2018, 9:33 pm

She doesn’t mean Ezra at all. Ezra’s a valuable, well-regarded member here.

She meant all the hackers out there who look for personal information on Internet forums. And possible nasty members here.



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12 May 2018, 9:38 pm

EzraS wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
*shrug* You asked for evidence, I provided it. If you’re too lazy to make a few clicks and scrolls to confirm that’s on you, not me for not providing it.


I'm not going to go visit that address like you asked, or call that number you like you asked, and I'm not opening anything with my FB account.

I should not be required to nor asked to do any of those things.


*shrug* Suit yourself. Open ended offer. At least now you can never claim that I haven’t offered to provide you with evidence of 100% of the statements and claims I have made over the last 5 years, starting with who I am.


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12 May 2018, 9:39 pm

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She doesn’t mean Ezra at all. Ezra’s a valuable, well-regarded member here.

She meant all the hackers out there who look for personal information on Internet forums. And possible nasty members here.


I was trying for humor - which often bombs.

Although I did delete the PM's



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12 May 2018, 9:46 pm

I figured you were kidding.....



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12 May 2018, 9:49 pm

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*shrug* You asked for evidence, I provided it. If you’re too lazy to make a few clicks and scrolls to confirm that’s on you, not me for not providing it.


I'm not going to go visit that address like you asked, or call that number you like you asked, and I'm not opening anything with my FB account.

I should not be required to nor asked to do any of those things.


*shrug* Suit yourself. Open ended offer. At least now you can never claim that I haven’t offered to provide you with evidence of 100% of the statements and claims I have made over the last 5 years, starting with who I am.


What was offered was for me and my mom to go visit some address.

To call a number which would provide my number through caller ID.

To open my FB account to visit another account which would reveal my FB account.

Does anyone here disagree with my refusal to do any of those things?

And do you feel that goldfish should be able to prove whatever he wants to about himself, without it involving me sticking my neck out?



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12 May 2018, 9:49 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
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goldfish21 wrote:
*shrug* You asked for evidence, I provided it. If you’re too lazy to make a few clicks and scrolls to confirm that’s on you, not me for not providing it.


I'm not going to go visit that address like you asked, or call that number you like you asked, and I'm not opening anything with my FB account.

I should not be required to nor asked to do any of those things.


*shrug* Suit yourself. Open ended offer. At least now you can never claim that I haven’t offered to provide you with evidence of 100% of the statements and claims I have made over the last 5 years, starting with who I am.

So in future any disbelief from Ezra will be met with, "I offered to prove it to you, but you declined."
I see what you did there. :wink:


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12 May 2018, 10:33 pm

Yeah I declined to end up exposing my own identity in the process.



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13 May 2018, 3:03 am

EzraS wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
EzraS wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
*shrug* You asked for evidence, I provided it. If you’re too lazy to make a few clicks and scrolls to confirm that’s on you, not me for not providing it.


I'm not going to go visit that address like you asked, or call that number you like you asked, and I'm not opening anything with my FB account.

I should not be required to nor asked to do any of those things.


*shrug* Suit yourself. Open ended offer. At least now you can never claim that I haven’t offered to provide you with evidence of 100% of the statements and claims I have made over the last 5 years, starting with who I am.


What was offered was for me and my mom to go visit some address.

To call a number which would provide my number through caller ID.

To open my FB account to visit another account which would reveal my FB account.

Does anyone here disagree with my refusal to do any of those things?

And do you feel that goldfish should be able to prove whatever he wants to about himself, without it involving me sticking my neck out?


I didn't tell you to go visit some address. I extended an open ended invitation for you to visit me at my home & offered to prepare a decent meal. Our dining table seats 10 and is wheelchair accessible w/ a makeshift plywood ramp up the two steps through the garage entrance or a quick lift by two able bodied people.

I'm not asking for, nor attempting to obtain, your phone number. Press the *## combination that conceals your number before you call. I think it's *57 here. Or download a free wifi phone/text app and use an anonymized phone number. Use whatever nerds use to conceal their IP address if you're suffering from paranoia.

I also don't care what your Facebook account is. I'm completely indifferent about it, honestly. Feel free to create a brand new one with a new anonymous hotmail address solely to add me & read through/search my newsfeed to your Sherlock Homes' heart's content.

You asked me to change my approach and offer you evidence. So, I said Okay, I'm an open book. What do you want? If I can provide it, I will, and in return you suggest that I have some ulterior motive of discovering your contact information. Keep it, I really don't care if I have it or not. You can still feel free to go and confirm every detail I've shared & ask all the questions you want.

You're not required to share your contact information. I didn't ask for it. I offered mine.


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13 May 2018, 3:07 am

Raleigh wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
EzraS wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
*shrug* You asked for evidence, I provided it. If you’re too lazy to make a few clicks and scrolls to confirm that’s on you, not me for not providing it.


I'm not going to go visit that address like you asked, or call that number you like you asked, and I'm not opening anything with my FB account.

I should not be required to nor asked to do any of those things.


*shrug* Suit yourself. Open ended offer. At least now you can never claim that I haven’t offered to provide you with evidence of 100% of the statements and claims I have made over the last 5 years, starting with who I am.

So in future any disbelief from Ezra will be met with, "I offered to prove it to you, but you declined."
I see what you did there. :wink:


Precisely.

But that was not my intent. I figured EzraS would salivate at the opportunity to say "dance monkey dance, jump through my hoops," to which I would reply "I can use my body now; I can dance. (true) And I'm in good shape, plenty good enough to jump through hoops."

But instead he fires back with the unexpected, which is still a no lose position for me.. checkmate, really.

Open ended offer forever & ever. 5 years ago I had the process & I shared it with you all. Now I also have the resources - time/effort & money - and I will utilize them to prove whatever you like because everything I have shared is true & everyone in my story is a real verifiable person.


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13 May 2018, 3:07 am

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Yeah I declined to end up exposing my own identity in the process.


So then keep it to yourself, Clark Kent.


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13 May 2018, 3:28 am

goldfish21 wrote:
I'm not asking for, nor attempting to obtain, your phone number. Press the *## combination that conceals your number before you call. I think it's *57 here. Or download a free wifi phone/text app and use an anonymized phone number. Use whatever nerds use to conceal their IP address if you're suffering from paranoia.

I also don't care what your Facebook account is. I'm completely indifferent about it, honestly. Feel free to create a brand new one with a new anonymous hotmail address solely to add me & read through/search my newsfeed to your Sherlock Homes' heart's content.


This just gets more and more complicated on my end doesn't it. What's next stand on one leg and cluck like a chicken?

goldfish21 wrote:
Open ended offer forever & ever. 5 years ago I had the process & I shared it with you all. Now I also have the resources - time/effort & money - and I will utilize them to prove whatever you like because everything I have shared is true & everyone in my story is a real verifiable person.


You're the one who keeps going on and on about how no one believes you. So do something about it - other than asking some autistic kid to jump through hoops.



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13 May 2018, 3:35 am

EzraS wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
I'm not asking for, nor attempting to obtain, your phone number. Press the *## combination that conceals your number before you call. I think it's *57 here. Or download a free wifi phone/text app and use an anonymized phone number. Use whatever nerds use to conceal their IP address if you're suffering from paranoia.

I also don't care what your Facebook account is. I'm completely indifferent about it, honestly. Feel free to create a brand new one with a new anonymous hotmail address solely to add me & read through/search my newsfeed to your Sherlock Homes' heart's content.


This just gets more and more complicated on my end doesn't it. What's next stand on one leg and cluck like a chicken?

goldfish21 wrote:
Open ended offer forever & ever. 5 years ago I had the process & I shared it with you all. Now I also have the resources - time/effort & money - and I will utilize them to prove whatever you like because everything I have shared is true & everyone in my story is a real verifiable person.


You're the one who keeps going on and on about how no one believes you. So do something about it - other than asking some autistic kid to jump through hoops.


How is this complicated? You asked for evidence. I said “Okay, I’ll provide it. What do you want? These things? Different things?” Etc.


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13 May 2018, 3:43 am

goldfish21 wrote:
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Yeah I declined to end up exposing my own identity in the process.


So then keep it to yourself, Clark Kent.


I am forbidden to make contact with anyone in a forum outside of the forum, or do anything that might compromise my privacy. This was established when I started on forums as an autistic kid for my safety. No phone calls, no texting, no emails, no FB, no insta and certainly no visits with someone on a forum.

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How is this complicated? You asked for evidence. I said “Okay, I’ll provide it. What do you want? These things? Different things?” Etc.


Find some way to provide it if you want, that doesn't involve me doing things I'm not supposed to do and wouldn't want to do.

The more you push for it the more uncomfortable it makes me feel.

Someone even sent me a PM telling me to be leery of you.