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Questions! Could he compromise and pay to have some of his stuff stored and dispose of the rest somewhere whether it is a landfill, auction house, or somewhere else? Why can't he pick out five of his most sentimental things and get rid of the rest?

We're autistic. We have issues with all or nothing thinking. But, if we're going to be able to do certain things in this world we have to somehow reduce that, right? I think ASS-P has issues with all or nothing based thinking. So do I.

(Addressed to Goldfish:)
...You're full of s**t!! !! !
I waa going to ignore you, but I HAVE SAID that I have contacted the NYS lawyer inquiring what the general mass of the stuff us, and that he has not gotten back to me!
For someone who claims to know everything about me...YOU DON'T KNOW s**t!







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..except ASS-P has so far refused to find out how much stuff there is. Further, you didn't say an envelope, so of course I assumed "any amount of stuff," that the stuff happens to be.[/quote]

...I can't find it now, but I recall someone putting a link up to some " how to scan " video. The problem with that is, that assumes that I will somehow, alk in one place, gather the things I want to scan, tech with which to do it, the full knowledge of how to do it (from me and/or someone else with me(, and the time to do it . All of this seems rather unlikely to happen at once .

I don't understand what you said here. Can you clarify further please?

I posted the "how to scan" video and it was a just joke video showing an office worker going nuts. People are saying scanning is simple for an office worker. Not you, but an office worker or secretary working for the lawyer. Also the lawyer could have the pictures sent to one of many little print and copy shops to have them do it.

ASS-P seems mainly concerned about photographs.

He would like to have all the stuff. But if getting all the stuff is not possible, then maybe at least the photos can be salvaged.

Kraftikortie and Goldfish21 are going back and forth between ASS-P being able to keep the photos in some nightstand or knapsack and them being stolen by someone at the facility. Either by a patient or staff. Although I don't know why anyone would bother stealing something that has zero value to anyone else. Especially staff if he could get staff to put the photos in safe keeping somewhere.

Krafti says ASS-P has had staff put stuff in safe keeping for him at other places and the stuff ended up stolen by staff. However I am assuming that stuff had some kind of street value.

Plan A: Have lawyer ship all the stuff to some WP member for that member to keep until a future time.

Plan B: ASS-P buys storage somewhere and the stuff is mailed there. Although someone is going to have to receive it and stow it.

Plan C: The lawyer just mails the photos to ASS-P and he loses the rest of the stuff.

Plan D: The lawyer has scans of the photos made and emails them to ASS-P and he loses all the stuff including the original photos.

All of these ideas have problems or potential problems.

ASS-P wants Plan A. But it doesn't look like Plan A is going to work. So back-up Plan B, C and D has been suggested.

In the meantime ASS-P is going to keep pleading for Plan A. While everyone else keeps pitching Plan B, C and D. Or a combination of Plan B, C and D. And various conflicting ways Plan B, C and D could or should be carried out.

One person comes up with a theory of how to do Plan B, C or D and then another person comes up with a theory of why that theory won't work.

And back and forth it goes.

We have to know what the stuff IS.....

It can be furniture. I can be just photos. Who the heck knows?

I don't know if I could say that the staff "stole" ASS-P's stuff.

But, according to ASS-P, the staff has thrown away some of his stuff when he's had to go to the hospital from the shelter. Clothes mostly. I think a phone once. A few other things.

With the photos, the best place for them are either in a drawer at the facility or (if he's no longer at the facility), in a knapsack protected by a ziplock bag.

The "other" things are....an unknown quantity.

The stuff just getting carelessly tossed out is another aspect. One of many problems with this is all the new/different aspects that keep getting introduced.

This is because I am remembering what he wrote a few months ago.

Being homeless is all kinds of crazy,

ASS-P has to advocate for himself. Put himself on a waiting list. End Stage Kidney Disease might put him ahead on the waiting list.

When it comes to Plan A, ASS-P has to find out exactly what the mass of the stuff is.

Although even if it's something as small as a shoe box, no WP member is likely going to agree to have it mailed to them because they don't want to deal with it. Or they can't deal with it. Or they think him asking is unethical. Or they consider it a personal safety risk. Or all of the above and who knows what else.

If it’s the size of a shoebox, he’d be okay. No storage costs.

But really I think what ASS-P is looking for is a surrogate. A lot of people his age have adult kids they can lean on. Or a wife or maybe even an ex-wife willing to help them. Or siblings. Or some best friend they've known forever.

Apparently ASS-P has no one. As far as anyone knows. At this point I wouldn't be surprised if ASS-P finally mentions he has a family member who lives down the street but he didn't want to bug them or he's angry with them over something or whatever.

The thing is, I think whoever agreed to take care ASS-P's personal belongings would basically be on the hook then. Because I don't think it would stop there and he would keep hitting them up for all the other things he's been asking WP members to do for him over and over again for years.

I'm not saying that to be mean or to put down or bully ASS-P. I am just stating what I believe to be a fact.

Really it's a miracle of mercy that ASS-P hasn't been banned from WP for years of soliciting WP members.

It seems likely from what I have been seeing, that ASS-P will insist keeping the shoebox at the facility he's at is unsafe, because it will get stolen. And also that he has no way of receiving it.

Maybe no one has ever realized that's the connection your brain made between their words and examples and the definition of gratitude before you wrote it out there for me to read?