There's something more, though. I'm thinking of a friend of mind who is the one person I most understand. It's more than projection, because I can understand him even in his differences from me. It's something intuitive. Like, I get what kind of person he is, how he thinks, and can apply that. And not on a conscious level, not logicking things out (yes, I just made "logic" into a verb

), but knowing because something in my brain that I'm not conscious of understands him and works out his perspective, based on that.
That's interesting. I don't think I'm really aware of the distinction between conscious and unconscious understanding. My way of thinking is always intuitive, regardless of whether I'm trying to work out a person's perspective or trying to solve a scientific problem. I "feel" the answer (or at least come up with a good educated guess) and then I use logic to try and verify whether my "feeling" is correct.