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14 Jun 2010, 2:59 am

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People have told me that I come across as intelligent, and I'm not sure why... Why do you think we come across as intelligent?

In all probability because asperger's gives many of us an enhanced ability to focus on something and study it in depth. and that focus leads to insights that others might miss and that insight allows us to innovate ways to deal with our preferred interests.

I never thought of myself as particularly way above average but as an engineer and a college professor my depth of knowledge and innovation was often commented on by others and my eccentricities were also tolerated.

Engineer and College professor are high on the list of good professions for Aspies to get into. I found that college professor was easiest for me because of the iconic stereotype of the absent minded professor, That fits me to a T. However now that bureaucracy and departmental meetings and lobbying for research money are the prime attributes of college professors and teaching is about a 3rd rate attribute, that is changing.


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In fact one person told ne they thought my intellect accounted for my odd behaviour.

Well that is probably close to the truth but it may be turned around backwards. I think that in my case it is my odd behavior that has aided my development of my intellect. At least the odd part of my behavior that gives me the ability to "hyper-focus" on what I am interested in. I am highly distractable and need a quiet place to think and work, however once I am in hyper-focus mode I become highly resistant to distractions and seem oblivious to what goes on around me. My time sense vanishes and I work for hours without much sense of how long I have been at it. What I am calling hyper-focus is probably the most outright autistic thing I do. On the other hand my ability to multi-task is abysmal, and my desk and filing system are what I refer to as "organic" (as in, "it looks like a compost heap :wink: ).


Using the "Hyper-focus" in areas of less interesting things is quite hard. It took me at least 4 years to do that,with a few errors at that point. Now I can, and do, use where I need it. It comes as one of our best assests, but also one of our greatest flaws. Turning that flaw into an asset is a tough road. it took me at least 4 years to get it when i needed it. another 5 months and I had it perfected. Heck, that's exactly how I passed my foreign language classes.

Applying it where it's needed takes practice, but it's not impossible. I discovered I had the "Hyper-focus" Through video games, which at the same improved my hand-eye coordination. War games like Call of Duty can easily help with identifing the extent of your "Hyper-focus," which is a skill any hardcore gamer should have.

The ability to notice things others can't comes with good and bad reactions. An example:

They say they got absolutely everything, and you notice something wrong. They get mad because you are disagreeing w/ them. You point it out, and a wide variety of reactions occur (anything from confusion followed by a slap to the head, all the way to even more anger).

The way one reacts to something will tell you a lot about that person, or at least their personality.

As for me, things aren't always easy physically, but mentally I could easily be one of the best. A ton of people come to me for math and science, as those are easily my strong points. Math especially because i can map out quite a few shapes in my head and figure things out like that easily. Sometimes it's accompanied by a few motions of my pointer finger, but that doesn't always happen.



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14 Jun 2010, 3:06 am

No. Either I just talk like one, or I'm an idiot, or I'm being a smart-a$$.


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14 Jun 2010, 8:21 am

People think I'm socially backward/ a space cadet/ even a priss but they still think me intelligent.


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14 Jun 2010, 8:48 am

Whether or not people think that I'm intelligent depends greatly on the context in which they meet me.

If they meet me at a party, for instance, one whiff of my social 'skills' convinces them that I'm dumb as a post [or if they come across me during one of my 'party escape bids', say halfway out a window, they just think I'm weird].

If they meet me in an academic or professional context, they think that I'm intelligent.



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14 Jun 2010, 9:38 am

I always get called intelligent, smart, or some other variation.

However, I disagree.

First of all, no one even knows what intelligent is, so how can you even tell if someone's intelligent?

Second, I don't think I have any more intellectual ability than my peers anyway, I just happen to be more mature and concentrated on certain things (knowing lots about my obsessions makes people think I'm smart too, which IMO is stupid because good memory =/= intelligence).

I have a lot of ambitions, that again doesn't mean I'm intelligent, but when I talk about those things it also makes people call me smart for some reason.



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14 Jun 2010, 10:15 am

People have said I was both dumb and smart at the same time. Which I believe means my head can implode at anytime. :P



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14 Jun 2010, 10:32 am

Sadly, most everyone has always thought I was super-intelligent, but so many of those same people use that as a tool to make me feel bad about myself by calling me lazy. Every time I'd go for any upgrade in life, or get a better job, they'd say "Well, I guess that's OK, but for someone as smart as you are, why aren't you in a science or medical field"? I know that's a twisted compliment, but I kind of feel like saying (word that starts with F) - YOU!

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14 Jun 2010, 11:47 am

I have to admit that I cannot stand someone thinking I'm stupid, especially when it's someone like a chav/redneck, who I know is "cognitively impaired"...



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14 Jun 2010, 12:17 pm

They do when I use my semantic memory to draw connections between things and apply it to new situations. I was taught to value and use that gift early on because my family is very bookish. I was born at the University of Chicago and grew up in a dorm because my parents avoided rent by being resident heads while Dad got his Ph. D. In an academic setting, all the teenage geniuses and proffessors I met loved the cute, little hyperlexic kid. My gifts of memory were, of course, highly valued and encouraged. I also have some mechanical and musical intelligence because I come from a long line of craftsmen on both sides of the family and a long line of musicians on Mom's. However, no one thinks I am particularly bright when I completely miss sarcasm or stare uncomprehending at facial expressions.



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14 Jun 2010, 12:26 pm

Idiot savant is the term that comes to mind.

A lot of people with AS think I'm dumb. It bothers me sometimes but I think it's because I'm still getting away from pretending to be NT.



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14 Jun 2010, 12:28 pm

Im actually very dumb but people think Im very smart. Hehe poor suckers. I am very dumb deep inside, they fail to see it.



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14 Jun 2010, 12:29 pm

Was anybody else in both gifted and special ed?



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14 Jun 2010, 4:28 pm

When people first see me they think I am ret*d. I am a total paradox, looking one way and being the opposite inside. When they find out how intelligent I am, it worries them. I think they are so surprised, they are not sure how to react.



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14 Jun 2010, 5:33 pm

A friend of my sister told me the other day that I'm going to grow up to be a modern day Einstein. :?

On the other hand, people in my class think I'm slow and stupid. I don't know who to believe.



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14 Jun 2010, 6:59 pm

Yeah, like other people here, I've been called both ret*d and smart at the same time. I think it must be an aspie thing.



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14 Jun 2010, 7:48 pm

Some have viewed me as ret*d....mostly peers in school.


Others have viewed me as quite intelligent.....including the psychologists who administered my IQ tests.


Personally I think i'm aspiring genius who happens to be ret*d by my own definition of the term.

This is the fundamental reason for all my unhappiness in this world.

I desired nothing other than the brillance of an Einstein.....and my brain won't even allow me to comprehend basic algebra. :(