have you ever run into one of your old bullies?

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Lene
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20 Aug 2010, 1:58 am

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20 Aug 2010, 2:00 am

Todesking wrote:
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Is your grade average really important after all these years? I'm grateful that I don't hold any grudges against people I used to know. They were just kids!


That struck me a bit too. OP, you're 40 years old now and you still feel upset at that missing 5% in 4th grade? Has it really made that much of a difference in your life??


No my 4 years of high school not the 4th grade before that my gym grades where in the high 80's. My avoiding him kept my gpa down for having high 60's because I missed so many classes.

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He started mentioning that we went to high school together and were in every gym class together from 7th grade to 12th grade. Then it came back to me like a bolt of lightning. He spent most of our shared school experience making my life a living hell in gym class and was the reason I had such a low gym grade because I would sit out so I would be near the gym teacher where he was afraid to say anything. This douche bag wanted to reminice about old times with me I told him if it was not for him my four year grade average would have been 90% and not 85%.


Nowhere did I mention the fourth grade. :roll: Not having that great of a gpa in high school kept me from wanting to go to college. You could be mistaken due to a difference in the way different English speaking countries discribe grade years I am guessing. I would not give two s**ts for the fourth grade let alone remember it. :wink:


Ah, that makes much more sense. Sorry, I misread your post. Yeah, fair enough that you're still pissed off then. He might not even remember though unfortunately.



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20 Aug 2010, 2:34 am

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My biggest bully is dead. He died a few years ago (4 or 5 years) from a drunken fall down the stairs after an argument his roommate (both of them were drunk). He hit his head on the concrete pavement at the bottom of the stairs, and was left to die alone.

He was the boy on the left - I am on the right. This was taken in 1992 or so.

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Way to be eerily depressing, including a picture an all. 8O



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20 Aug 2010, 5:07 am

I ran into a boss who bullied me at a previous job. I looked at her in disgust. she looked very uncomfrtable and said "Hi Opal" I sneered at her and walked away.



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20 Aug 2010, 5:18 am

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I'm to busy saving the planet volunteering and stuff to worry about bumping into my bullies. Also I'm a loner, just the way I want it.


It truly is wonderful to be a loner. :P No friends to make fun of you. You can do your own thing whenever and go wherever you want. You don't have to worry about if your best friend is dating your boyfriend, or dating your girlfriend. It's YOU! I enjoy being alone. No friends is great! No bullying. But I have to deal with the bullies at work. :cry:


The irony was not lost on me.



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20 Aug 2010, 7:14 am

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have you ever run into one of your old bullies?

Yes in my car, speed bump

just kidding, but I have thought about it


:lol: :lol:

Someone at church told me that the bullies who bothered me in the past and now they will get it back. Karma. Maybe even worse pain than they did to me. But seriously I don't care what happens to them. My previous boss for example was awful, a bigot, a rude, cruel person. If I were to see her on the streets and say that she's being harassed by men, i wouldn't care! She is one person I truly despise and don't care what happens to her.


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20 Aug 2010, 11:56 am

heh, i hope i dont become an adult whos obbsessed by what happened when i was a teenager



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20 Aug 2010, 11:57 am

srsly though, bullies grow up, so should victims



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20 Aug 2010, 12:22 pm

A few years ago, I was takeing a driveing class to get my driver's permit. One of my ex bullies just happened to be in the same class. He decided he would steal a pencil from a fellow student, and try his cheap tactic to get her up in my face. It worked, she subtly played the victim around the class, and her relatives. The teacher talked to her and me. I didn't steal the pencil. :roll: How mature, right?

Later, at the very end of our class semester, him and his strange friend decided they would pick the lock on a doorway to go steal stuff out of a soda machine. 'sigh' When I heard my fellow students mumble that they were doing this, literaly in view of everyone but the teacher, I was thought "Gee wow, your intellegant actions just make me feel better as time goes by." The teacher came out soon after, and saw them. One of the students said "yeah, they picked the lock and broke in for a piece of junk food."

We all stood there, watching him and his buddy walk back with slight grins on their faces, and coke bottles in their hands. The teacher then smiled and told them something like "That was a very stupid thing you did. Guess what? You get to take this class all over again!" I was privatly amused.



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20 Aug 2010, 12:34 pm

I remember in elementary school there were 2 boys little older than me that teased me all the time. Well one time one of the bullies made the mistake of teasing me when his mom was close by! WOW! He had to do push ups in front of me.
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20 Aug 2010, 12:38 pm

Leekduck wrote:
srsly though, bullies grow up, so should victims


Maybe I should expect that from someone who barely got abused at all.

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20 Aug 2010, 1:04 pm

i like reading all these stories

Sefirato wrote:
My biggest bully is dead. He died a few years ago (4 or 5 years) from a drunken fall down the stairs after an argument his roommate (both of them were drunk). He hit his head on the concrete pavement at the bottom of the stairs, and was left to die alone.

He was the boy on the left - I am on the right. This was taken in 1992 or so.

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i was gonna say you look cute in that pic but reading your caption of it you sound like you're revelling in his death and thats kind of repulsive:/.

the only time ive ever really been bullied was by someone i was in a relationship with. a while after i had the opportunity to be a total b***h and get as much revenge as i wanted. but i found it far more satisfying to just be nice and civil. and it probably hurt him a lot more. i dont get why people waste their time with revenge



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20 Aug 2010, 1:13 pm

LiendaBalla wrote:
Leekduck wrote:
srsly though, bullies grow up, so should victims


Maybe I should expect that from someone who barely got abused at all.

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You call someone stealing soda from you abusive?!?! Jesus christ

No When i was younger i actualy got my clothes stoled off me and i was tied to a picnic bench with shoelaces, and i was left there for atleast half an hour, but im not going to dwell on it.

AND the bullies who done it recently said that they were sorry and that they would not do it today, turns out there not massive gits like i thought they were :x



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20 Aug 2010, 6:25 pm

Those perverts should have got told on.
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And.. the soda theft my ex bully did was just stupid, period. He didn't steal it from me. He broke into a locked part of the building, that we were all advized to stay out of, then robbed the machine with his friend, and came back with soda pop in hand, in full view of our entire class.



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20 Aug 2010, 8:33 pm

Leekduck wrote:
You call someone stealing soda from you abusive?!?! Jesus christ


She did not say that was abuse, she was showing the reader of the post the character of her bullies and how horrible they are. :roll: I am sorry I had to explain this to you. .


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25 Aug 2010, 11:00 am

Sefirato wrote:
My biggest bully is dead. He died a few years ago (4 or 5 years) from a drunken fall down the stairs after an argument his roommate (both of them were drunk). He hit his head on the concrete pavement at the bottom of the stairs, and was left to die alone.

He was the boy on the left - I am on the right. This was taken in 1992 or so.

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WOW
What did this bully do to you?
For making fun of you in the past, his life was cut short.


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