ADHDorASDorBoth wrote:
It's a shame that your stepson's mother thinks that homeopathy is a valid technique.
She probably believes in other woo as well.
He can read plenty online can't he, to understand and tell his mother that she is wrong....totally.
If he wants to.......
He will not argue with his mother. She supports him and provides him with a very privledged lifestyle, wheras we are normal everyday, non materialistic people who will not buy him $80 shoes to go with his new outfit to match the new truck he got after he blew up his last one. Need I say more? Her and I never have seen eye to eye, but SHE is his mother, not me so I am at a disadvantage.
I told him to get off of the drugs and alcohol, exercise and start taking care of himself and he will be surprised how much better he feels, and then go from there. You can't do too many things at once otherwise you will fail. You need to keep your life management realistic. His mother and I have never seen eye to eye. Maybe I was just grasping that there may be something that we actually agree on.
He won't do the research, he is not an academic and shouldn't even be "away" for college. He doesn't even do his freaking homework, he would NEVER do the research on his own. He needs good guidance, period.
I know he's an adult, but I can't help but feel bad for him and want to help. Call me stupid, but he's never been helped in any way that is effective. Like I said earlier, she is a give him a pill and call it a day mother. She won't do the work.
I'm outta here! Thanks everyone but I'm very over this subject.