I guess I am an expection. I have a Class A Driver's License (the highest level) with a Passenger, air brake, tankers, and doubles/triples endorsements. That means I can legally drive just about anything with wheels.
I didn't learn to drive though until 18. I still have a bit of trouble with the stick.
I think an Aspie has additional challenges which are;
1) Depth perception
2)Timing,
and
3) Predicting other driver's potential actions.
My advice as a professional driver is this:
1) Don't drive with your emotions. Don't stomp on the gas, spin the wheel hard, or force the vehicle into a place because you are angry at another driver, a light, or unable to cross an intersection etc. Drive using logic and reason.
2) Over estimate the distance, space, and time it takes to take an action, especially when changing lanes or backing up. Don't be afraid to stop the vehicle and get out the vechile and look at your distance when parking or pulling out.
4) Assume every other driver on the road does not see you, many of them don't. I drive a 25 passenger giant purple bus with the lights on and a 350 V10 Trition engine that rocks the buildings and some people STILL don't see or hear me coming. There are IDIOTS on the road. IF they don't know you are there, they will pull out in front of you, cut you off, not let you change lanes, etc, because they don't notice you.
5) Assume your brakes don't work well, give yourself plenty of time to brake or make a sudden turn off the road, at all times. If another driver cuts into the space you give between you and car in front of you, ease back more and create a new space of the same size. Give yourself 5 seconds of time, more if it is raining, snowing, or foggy, or if you are tired or sick. There is no reason to drive on the bumper of the car in front of you, you aren't going to get where you are going any faster.
6) Understand their is no such thing as "Right of Way". Assume the other guy will not yield and thinks he should be first even if you got their first or he is the one with the stop sign or yield sign. Stop signs, red lights, and crosswalks, and pedestrains don't always follow the rules. They think they are entitled to be first.
7) If the roads are bad, and you don't have to go out, don't. Snow chains should be used to get out of a bad situation and get home, not to leave home and get into one.
Best,
Idaho Aspie