Aspied are normal people

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Asperger Syndrome, like any other diagnosable disorder in the DSM, is normal human behavior taken to an extreme.

There are so many behavioral and functional reasons that I am outside the expected range of normalcy, and a few ways that I do fit normalcy.

Being normal isn't just one thing, which is why there are standard deviations and ranges rather than a single point. Or why ADHD is not a sharply defined condition but rather based on people fitting into the upper 94th percentile of symptoms, as people who have subclinical symptoms are less likely to be impaired by them (and everyone experiences the traits in ADHD to some degree, although the majority don't experience them very often or to the same intensity).

And of course many people may be normal in some ways and not in others. And some standards of normalcy are also oppressive as people outside those standards tend to be treated harshly through no fault of their own.

Normalcy is a complicated beast, and the idea of "normal", while based on statistical spread, is itself a social construct that often includes value judgments for fitting or failing to fit the category. As such, I primarily find it useful as a diagnostic aid (to know where people are symptomatic enough to have trouble and what kind of trouble, with any particular condition), and would prefer to deconstruct the idea of normalcy as a social force, although how likely is that?

While I agree that normalcy is a social creation, I believe the creation occurs when a majority of people exhibit a certain response to particular stimuli which becomes the definition of normal for that situation. I also agree that is it possible to be normal in some ways and not others, it depends on an individual’s response to stimuli and the responses of any majority in a given situation.

Well as I said, statistically most people fall within a single standard deviation of most other people. That is what is labeled normal.

"Normalcy" as a social and sometimes moral imperative is a social construct, not the idea that most people work in particular ways.

I've read (in two completely different books on Autism) that people with just mild AS are on the ''normal part of the spectrum''. I didn't quite know what that meant - I didn't know if it meant most people, who are born on the spectrum, are more likely to just have AS than severe (low-functioning) Autism, or if it meant most people with AS can learn some of the social cues and are more able to learn self-awareness as they get older, ect. I don't know - I'm no doctor, but I'm just going by what I've read. I'm always advised by Aspies here that I should research a bit more on Autism, which is what I'm doing, so I'm not going to disbelieve everything I read about it.