EMERGENCY help needed please

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As I've said before, I see a lot of desperation and panic here. It's easier said than done, but you can't have that. It only makes the situation worse. I've also said before that there are times where the frontal assault is not the best idea - yet you keep doing it. Back off and re-assess the situation.

Sun-Tzu wrote that if you have to go to war you have failed. The same is true with litigation. If you have to go to court, you've failed - or so I was told by my law professors on the first day of law school. On that note, I have relayed to you about what my relative (who is a physician) in Scotland has said - both about your situation and socialized medicine in general.

I am not a barrister or solicitor. I am not a Queen's Counsel. I am just a law student and an airman. I can't give you legal advice. But here is some practical advice.

As I have said before, barristers don't take cases for two reasons: 1) There is no case; 2) There may very well be a case but to pursue it would be economically unfeasable. You have mentioned that you can't get legal help. That being the case, you don't go charging into court. By doing so you go into battle unarmed. In the States, we have a saying: "Pro se is no say." It means if you represent yourself, the chances are very good that the judge will not listen to you. Charging into court without a barrister would be making the charge of the Light Brigade look like a sensible military excercise.

That option not being availible, have you been examining your other options? I don't see that happening. Of course, I can't be there to watch everything either. I also don't know the system.

I'm mostly blind in this - but looking through the veil, I would say back off, do research, and re-assess.

Longshanks

I cannot believe what I've been reading in the latest on this thread! Your alleged shortcomings in AVs actions are all well-documented features of AS! NTs believe that AS is an emotional/behaviour problem which we need to be forced to change. The reality is that we are evolutionally incapable of certain things, such as body language, understanding hints at what's expected of us, or knowing how to get what we need!

Making an application for resources or services IS asking for help.If the 'service providers' refuse, what are people supposed to do next? The answer is that there are appeal and complaints procedures. What do you think they're there for? (In my experience they're actually designed to give further opportunities for the government to abuse us, right up to, and including, the European Court of Human Rights. But how is the person at the beginning of the process supposed to know that? We Aspies are particularly vulnerable because we take people at their word)

NO-ONE should have to beg in order to get what they need, and are unable to obtain other than from the public services. What sort of society do you people want to live in? People in this country pay their taxes believing that those in authority will use them to provide for those most in need, such as the disabled. Why don't you advise AV to go down to the High Street and sit on the pavement with a bowl in front of him? He'd probably get more than he would in welfare payments, and would likely be treated with more respect than he's receiving from the 'civil' servants!

I don't know about the USA or Australia, but in the UK it's a citizen's duty to report crimes, including those committed by public officials. There were also the Nuremberg Trials, which all our allies signed up to, and which made it an offence to turn a blind eye to, or take part in, crimes by governments against there own people. Crimes don't get much worse than taking pleasure in torturing people because they've been born with a disability.

PIANORAK I am deeply grateful for your comments and I sincerely apologise for not coming back sooner. You really truly understand the situation and I'm so grateful. I did pm you a few weeks ago but I'm not sure if it went through to you? I am aware that moderators can read/delete PM's so be wary. My other email is [email protected] I would be so grateful to hear from you. The RDASH video was unfairly taken down, as well as Mum's and I emotional response was taking down..... everything that seems truly in Mum's and mine favour gets taken down... it's unfair and cruel.

I am deeply upset at some of the other comments by others. It is unfair of you to comment in a negative and soul destroying way and feel I there is no way moderators are dealing with me without bias, prejudice and discrimination.

Longshanks.... you confused me the most..... To me I am very grateful for what Pianorak wrote.... it did feel like there was a shift in your nuances, especially when on a previous post you mentioned a long lost relative confirming what's happening to Mum and I is common place in England. Of course I have legal merits... I perhaps wrongly thought you understood me enough to realise that I've done everything possible before reaching the state Mum and I are in now. I can confirm that 3 solicitors have confirmed I have a case, mainly due to my recorded system as it proves what is happening verbatim and there is also a community care solicitor that has confirmed what is happening is illegal and she wanted to go for judicial review but it became to complex and overwhelming even for me and I just did not know how to respond so I shut down. On a previous post Invader has confirmed he's seen some files I sent him so everything I say is true. Things are still very dire for Mum and I. p.s I assure you medical care is at the heart of the European Convention of Human Rights... quick example is that denial of medical care here that leads to death, inhuman or degrading treatment, psychological torture etc is a violation of several articles of the HrA. Please trust my intelligence & logic. I spent hundreds of hours researching case laws etc. http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2012/ ... ent-deaths This is only the tip of the iceberg here in Great Britain.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=t3ZjYB5OtzA I've got an abscess on this one so bear with me but please listen to Mum at the end as it is the true reality.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ynvkd_vSOU0 Mum trying to phone "hossacks" one of the best solicitors for fighting the system and we still got shut down.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=P9a54NGveL4 Try and see the true significance of this recorded system, this means I have all the public authorities, including charities lying, treating me badly, fobbing me off, breaking promises, doing outright discrimination and victimisation under England's Equality Act 2010. Mum and I have suffered enough and Mum could die any day, I need that breakthrough before Mum passes away as my Dad died in misery on 2nd Feb 2009 and I don't understand why some of you fail to see this. so please, only helpful, altruistic responses, no more trolling. Even if Mum and I were the most horrible people (we aren't!) so many organisations have a legal and statutory duty to provide services regardless of funding issues.

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Hi Allen,
I've watched all your youtube videos and read your posts, trying to piece together your story. It is easy to see how terribly it is affecting you and your Mum, I feel awful for you and you are obviously struggling.... but you must realise that your reaction to this situation is making it so much worse. All these people promise you services (because you deserve some) but then they back off after they find out some background information on your situation. These service providers can't send people in to help you because your behaviour is quite scary and unpredictable. Now you may dispute this, but if I were one of the people mentioned in your videos, one of those you are looking down the lens at and swearing at or threatening, I would be steering well clear of you. Do you think you can act this way and they should just think because of your disabilities that it isn't serious, or that they should understand. You may be sure you'll never hurt anyone, your Mum might know that's just how you deal with the stress... but the people who were wanting to help you don't know you well enough. Just because you have Aspergers doesn't explain your frightening behaviour, it really doesn't. In my opinion they probably think you have some other unidentified problems that need to be fixed before they can send in assistance in your day to day life. These agencies or charities have a duty of care to their workers too. Calling for everyone to be sacked is not helping. Yes, many have made promises to you but how can they fulfill those promises when any time a mistake or misunderstanding happens you start threatening them.
I do feel bad for you, but I want to be real with you. This is how I'm seeing it. I really hope you and your Mum get some help. I think maybe the help you need is different to the help you think you need. I don't think you're mad, I think "they" think you're mad, so maybe you should be assessed to reassure them that you aren't. I really am writing this to help, not to troll.

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Well, I think you're missing my point too. I don't expect him to act "normal" nor should he have to be "normal" If you want these services you can't threaten people like that. If you know that then you have to try and take control. No, I don't think that is like asking an epileptic to stop having seizures, you are assuming then that Allen has no control at all over his behaviour- ever. In that case he needs more help than just to open his mail and help with the shopping. They won't send the people you want to help you if you call them all c***s & bastards, always wanting revenge. They will send the people you don't want ie. the psych doctors and the police. Do you really believe so many people want to make your life so miserable? I don't think it is a widespread conspiracy to discriminate against you. These people work with people with Autism every day, I'm sure they don't run away every time a swear word gets thrown their way, but when that changes to what they perceive as real threats, there has to be a line drawn surely? Maybe a line that says, this person needs the kind of help we can't provide, so they call someone else. But you don't seem to want that kind of help.
I'm prepared to be blasted over this... go ahead. I know some of you will think how could I possibly understand, I am NT.

Allen, I don't take any joy at all in writing this, I really wish you were getting the help you need. In one video your Mum mentioned her daughter in law? Can she help to advocate on you and your Mum's behalf?

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I've read your latest response, Allen. I don't get what's not understandable about what I've said.

1) You've mentioned that three barristers think you have a case. Okay, great! Why won't one of them take it? It's because of money, right? I've said as much. See my previous posts.

2) You need a lawyer or barrister to take this to court or you will lose. See my previous posts.

3) You keep making a frontal assault. Bad move. Try the flank or behind. Sometimes it's necessary to get in through the back door, which means that you need to start making connections within the system to make the system work for you.

It's not that I don't empathize with your case. I do, believe me. And this should scare all Americans because we aspies will be in for the same thing with Obamacare. I read the law. I've worked for a government run health care program. I know what's coming more than most. I've talked to that physician who is a relative of mine in Scotland. She agrees with me. The only winners in socialized medicine are the bureaucrats - period! If you don't have a lawyer, you need to start schmoozing with the bureaucrats to get the help you need - not attacking them. If you go into court pro-se, you will lose. Pro-se means you represent yourself. Pro-se is no say. Don't do it.

Longshanks

LONGSHANKS Please seriously, I'm struggling here. I don't care about the other distractors, in fact some of them I wonder at their true intentions, it's almost as if trying to scare anyone to not support me or stand up for Mum and I. Please send me your email address to all three [email protected], pm me here in wrongplanet and also allenvincent489.gmail.com (humour me please)

I will send you the same information that I sent Invader and you WILL be shocked. In the meantime I ask you to research England's Equality Act 2010 :

http://www.equalityhumanrights.com/uplo ... escode.pdf <<<< although the EHRC is corrupt, this code in itself is excellent & will help a lot of you. (I can say this as I have the Englands Equality & Human Rights Commission on my recorded system since early 2010 when Department of Work & Pensions were blatantly refusing to acknowledge 6th principle of the then DED Disability Equality Duty which was basically to pay due regard to disability, substantial disadvantage & detriment. Before the EHRC realised the true significance of my recorded calls, they admitted it was wrong of the DWP then total shut down since.

There are many things about my disabilities that I just cannot explain, except that I am doing my best in extreme circumstances and essentially I'm a clever boy/savant in a mans body manipulated into extremes. People seem to be saying I am a fool for doing claim 1se06800 against Englands Solicitors Regulation Authority.... I think not. I made it clear on N1 form plus 81 pages my situation that I was doing the claim in desperation (for everyones information, there is a little known "vento bandings" which means disabled in all it's forms should be awarded up to £30,000 for sustained discrimination. N1 Claims for Disability Discrimination is supposed to be easy and straightforward (it's not as you have to get past ignorant and discriminatatory front line staff and management) Plus it's already published that county court system is not practical for disability claims but previous Labour Government refused to have an "equality court" despite the official fact that in a ten year period only 100 county court claims were made compared to over 50,000 employment disability claims, so there is something in the system unlawfully blocking claims against the establishment itself. The Court are also supposed to appoint a "disability discrimination assessor" they refused, what I call the SRA "enemy solicitor" even gracefully acknowledged that as I am doing this without aspergers/dear personal assistant I need help... Sheffield County Court refused..... in desperation as I am under Mental health Act 1983 (I'm not ashamed of this as I know I need help especially now and none of you can deny Mum and I are trumatised) .... They said they could only provide extra help if I could get a doctor to say I'm under health act... but here's the bit they were bastards..... they KNEW I didn't have doctor ! ! So it was a hoop they knew I could not carry out/adhere to. Despite everything, lack of reasonably adjustments Mum and I were forced ourselves to be ready for first hearing 15th August 2011.... they changed the date ! !! Then they changed the date to when they knew I was over 200 miles away at Kent throwing up!! Then they stopped sending me emails, just sent post to my Doncaster house when they KNEW i was at my Mum's in Kent!! My recorded calls means I have the vast majority of England's public authorities committing unlawful acts under so many laws.

Invader (ps Invader sent you about 5 emails, can you check your inbox please) and Pianorak again a big thank you both for seeing the true reality. Even if Mum and I are murdered, driven to suicide or I'm incarcerated after Mum passes away, it means a lot that some truly got it. I really believe the full truth will out one day. In essence I'm doing a good thing as showing England's disabled there IS a way to fight back legally but by heck, don't do it on your own. Finally in England two important new laws that came out October 2010.... " indirect discrimination " and "discrimination arising from disability" it is our right to make complaints about bad staff, those that are "fixed" and "inflexible" those that are like "it's my way or the highway" expression. Those that ignore disabilities those that cover up.. all this in England is Vulnerable Adult Abuse which is a criminal offense ! ! *** oh ! ! finally again.. I know sorry... about the money issue... really it should not be a problem due to England's Legal aid/public funding but.... I even have the law commission and Community Legal Service fobbing me off on my deaf recorded system. Some of you are lucky enough to have one disability.. I have several, some days I feel like I am a genius... many days I am a vegetable. Most of my coping skills were destroying working for Doncaster Nissan so cut Mum and I some slack! If the deaf Bradford postman won his case just for a taxi firm hanging up on him then how the hell can what is happening to Mum and I not be illegal in so many ways under so many laws, regulations and codes of practices.... ESPECIALLY when I can prove it, so YES there is a conspiracy against Mum and I in England. I've done a rough calculation that it would cost the Government/system six Billion pounds if only 10% of England's disabled fought back in the same way as I.

On the next post I do, I actually want to publish mine and Mum's full address but I feel certain moderator just dying to ban me unfairly so I need a yes/no. Another thing that really sticks out, one of the latest lies from England's services is that I am denying my Mum care.... so those of you that don't like me, think I'm going about things the wrong way..... What is the ONE thing that I am trying to get for Mum and I? HELP ! ! so it's logically flawed that why would I do this if not for help? I'm 40 and never done anything like this before, if not to get help! So please be brave, don't be scared or intimated by the distractors or harsh moderators. Finally for the 3rd yeah I know.... for those that still being ignorant.... THAT is what the Equality Act 2010 is for, to compensate for the disability, substantial disadvantage & detriment!! I can only go so far, then there is a gap....the Equality Act is legally obligated to make anticipatory reasonable adjustments, they think they have to wait for whatever the disabled person specially asks for but the anticipatory part takes into account those that don't fully know what to ask for. Going to bed now as I feel like passing out but one thing I hope is clear from video's is that I would N E V E R hurt my Mum ! !! Mum is all I have. I can barely look after myself and I've done my best to pull myself together to help Mum to!

nobody has threatened to ban you, AllenVincent. you have not even been warned.

please do not include your full address on this thread for your own safety. if you want to give it to people via PM, go ahead. but it is not safe to publish it publicly on WrongPlanet.

Longshanks is right. If you represent yourself, unless you're a qualified solicitor, the courts won't take you seriously, no matter how carefully you prepare your case.

If money's an issue, then you need to look around for a solicitors who are willing to offer legal aid.

If communicating with the them are an issue for you, then if you contact the National Autistic Society, I think they offer a service where they can help you with legal proceedings.

They can also help you get the support you need for both yourself and your mum. If you feel like they won't listen to you if you call them personally, get someone you know to call. You've told me about someone who's been helping out, so maybe get them to call.

The trick here is to make sure you follow the system. Find people willing to vouch for you personally, someone who knows how you are on a day to day basis, then go through the legal system to get what you need, I know it's frustrating, but it's the best way