Okay, here's a thing: In the UK, around 1-2% of the population have autism spectrum disorder. Of those, I'm not sure how many are Aspies but, clearly, a smaller proportion of the population again. Given the hundreds of stories you read in the news and see on TV each day/week, how often does the excuse of having Asperger's come up? In the UK at least, it's rarely mentioned in news stories, and not because of reporting restrictions. I don't think it's over-used. I still think we're not properly supported and things would be better for us if we were.
Because of the terrible way some police officers treat people, I now carry a National Autistic Society 'I have autism' card in my wallet in case I witness something or somehow get involved in something and need time out before I need to communicate.
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Bio info about me: Mid-50's, male, quiet-ish, interested in the world around me and the people I meet. Mild Asperger's. Here to make friends. I'm pretty upbeat.
Favourite quotes: "Don’t walk in front of me… I may not follow... Don’t walk behind me… I may not lead...Walk beside me… just be my friend” - Albert Camus
"Therefore one can say, 'Well, yes, I didn't play Hedda Gabler', but do you know what? I didn't want to play Hedda Gabler." - JC