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I will give you the benefit of the doubt when it comes to salicylates as I cannot take medications like aspirin or other non steroidal anti-inflammatories due to experiencing bad reactions to them.

The last time I was given one of those at the hospital some years ago I started wheezing and projectile vomited everywhere to which the nurse replied "oooo that's not a good reaction is it! We won't give you those again!" and they didn't.

I have read that people with salicylate sensitivities can have problems with such medications which I do.

Ergo, have you got a link to a list of the main salicylate containing foods please and I will keep my eye on it.

...as for you being intelligent so everyone must ignore the signals the underwear videos are giving off (BTW I haven't seen them), I saw a programme recently in which an apparently very well-known female porn star, who had done the most unbelievably disgusting things, was now studying to be a medical doctor, or doctor's assistant. That doesn't undo everything she had done (I am not saying you have done those things, just the impression you will give people by those types of video) nor will she ever be taken entirely seriously, no matter how intelligent or capable she is in other areas.

I have seen people sunbathing in their bikinis in the front garden.

There is nothing wrong with being sexual.

Neither is there anything wrong with a little sexual exploration as long as you are not doing anything that can cause harm.

You have a very judgmental attitude about such things.

It's not like I am running around having sex with all and sundry or participating in sexual activities that can cause any physical damage or emotional harm (I leave the hard core stuff to other people, I am far too sensitive for anything too extreme). But I do like to explore my sexuality sometimes.

In fact I would like to do some fetish related artwork at some point. I won't link you to the blog I have set aside for the more explicit stuff when I get around to doing it though, it might be too much of a shock for you.

Then society needs to get a better attitude and stop being such judgmental dingle berries whilst constantly walking around with a stick up their arse.

Perhaps a little rectal surgery can help although in some cases I think it might be a lost cause. The sticks are rammed so far up their arses that even the worlds greatest surgeon would not be able to help.

Ignorance is more a sign of lack of intelligence than being sexually explicit is. You have it mixed up my dear.

And I don't do anything close to what a porn star would do.

I reserve my sexual adventures for partners I have an emotional bond with or close connection to.

My neighbour asked me for sex the other day. I was not offended (I am not easily offended by such things) but I did decline.

It is just a video of a larger lady dancing in their underwear.

Waits for the speech telling me that larger ladies should stay covered up...

The human body does come in all shapes and sizes. I would be interested in exploring this and doing some artwork showing their underlying beauty despite their imperfections. I wonder if I should take a sketching class. I also like the old rubenesque paintings such as the one below although I do not know who it is by (do not know a lot about art history at this stage in my life although I might research it at some point, I am not sure yet).



And no my video is not done in the most artistic way, but it is still a form of expression. That is it.

If you can't differentiate between a form of expression and the person behind that expression that is not my problem. The two are not always the same.

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I'm just finding it harder and harder to buy into though. With the claimed level of intelligence, there would be an intellectual reasoning going on. For instance, when my 7 year old daughter had her assessment, she was shown the social stories pictures, she found them incredibly difficult and the psychologist told me afterwards that she was making suggestions as to what could be going on, based on intellect rather than intuition (she still failed the test of course!). Even at that age she was doing this. Are you tell me a woman of almost 40 years old, with the claimed level of intellect and very verbal and expressive style and self-analysis, can be that bad at understanding and realising a few obvious things by now? I had a gut instinct about this even before you found the naughty videos and she admitted to deliberately dancing provocatively. In that respect, I believe bumble knows exactly what she is doing. The expressions in her photos give a lot away too. This innocent claim of "I make expressions and people misinterpret them" is not ringing true. None of it is now. I'm sorry bumble...feel free to explain otherwise, but I would take some convincing. You don't answer certain helpful posts, you cherry pick. You falsely accuse people of ulterior motives and victimise yourself. What is your game?

If other people confuse you...you sure as hell confuse me!

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Please don't link me to it!

It sounds to me as if you've spent far to much time on horrible porn sites

I have the 'average person who likes to keep themself safe's opinion on things

You are the one asking for advice - I was just giving it

All I can say is it doesn't sound as if your current diet or lifestyle is making you very happy so perhaps taking a bit more notice of advice given might not be such a bad idea

I believe it's loneliness, and a love of drama. Entire threads focused just on her . So we shall go round and round once again. I do find her rebuttals entertaining, and I think there's an occasional nugget of truth thrown in for good measure...

Good stuff. Monitoring what happens when you eat high sal foods is a start! The biggest potential issue is that sal levels can build and build and cause major problems, so if they're already high you might not notice dramatic changes in yourself when you eat them. You may, though. Do yourself a favour and google up symptoms of salicylate sensitivity to familiarize yourself with them to see if you currently have them, had them in the past and may be able to correlate to diet, or if they happen in the future. I'd post a link to a rather exhaustive list but I'm not at home right now.

Also, if you're interested in conducting a simple experiment or two that will cost very little £, you could intentionally overdose on sals to observe the changes - however - if you are ss, this will literally be a living hell that could potentially trigger passively suicidal thoughts. Alternatively, if you'd care to PM me, I'll tell you of another experiment you could conduct at a cost of less than £5 that will make you feel better, instead of worse, if you do happen to be ss. Added bonus: this experiment does not involve food or drink, so you don't have to worry about having to eat or not eat anything! Instead of boosting sal levels sky high to see if they f**k you up, it should reduce them if they're already built up some. Then after that you'd have a better chance of noticing if sals bother you when you eat them, too.

Sincerely,
Richard

Not working for you though, is it? You still aren't collecting friends because of it. So, what's the purpose?

You aren't listening to people's advice on how it will attract the wrong people. This has no correlation on whether you should express yourself or not. Just that you should use some decorum, or use the videos for private use.

Why you choose to systematically defend the theory of being intelligent, denotes a sign of an inferiority complex.

I love dancing, and expressing myself sexually too. But I don't need to advertise it and post videos of myself doing it.

Same old narrow minds, same old judgements.

Case of point, with rare exceptions, it is only other females who take offense to my videos etc. Males have always been far more friendly and less judgmental and is why I have always preferred them as friends.

Yes I am a little lonely but you will not stop me from artistically expressing myself because you are narrow minded and judgmental.

They are my blogs and in my blog, as long as I adhere to the site rules, I am entitled to post whatever I wish.

I am also free to express myself in that medium however I wish.

Not running down the high street doing a lady godiva no, but in my blog, in a video...I can express myself how I wish.

Are you afraid of nudity? Why are you so ashamed of sexuality and the human body? It is all natural. We used to wear a lot less than what I was wearing. At one point I am not even sure we wore clothes at all...

Same tired answers.

I was not collecting friends without it darling.

It makes no difference. No attempt I have made to make friends has worked, usually due to some bitchy group of females stirring up unnecessary s**t.

Which is why when I have had friendships or online contacts they have always been male and it has been that way for 20 years....long before I started posting such videos and even before I had a connection to the internet.

I don't have female friends...they are bitchy, backstabbing, spiteful and have always been the gender who bullied me and made my life a misery. Men have nearly always been kind (with a few exceptions). Ergo, my friends have ALWAYS been male not female. The down side is that they get romantically and/or sexually attached and if I don't feel the same about them (ie it is platonic) it blows up in my face as a result.

I have only one female online contact (who is unusually sweet) and that is because she was being bullied on a forum board and I stepped in to defend her even though I did not know her. They were mocking her, ganging up on her, laughing at her...it was a full blown 'pack attack' and she was becoming upset by it. Not one person did anything. They just sat and watched and did nothing...so I stepped in in her defense and we have been in contact since. We don't chat often but we have exchanged gifts (she has sent me books and she also sent me bobble and I have sent her some cross stitching a while ago).

My other contacts are male. George and Stanley were sent to me by them and my male neighbour has also given me some furniture (some bookshelves) whilst another gave me a desk.

Most women on the other hand...b***h b***h b***h gossip gossip back stab back stab gossip gossip b***h b***h.

Here is a hint; If you dont like my blogs...don't go to them. I have a wide selection of blogs, if that one is not to your taste try one of the others instead.

I don't want to be friends with such judgmental people anyway so it does help me to weed out people I don't want to connect with.

It;s not as simple as finding people who like me, I need to like and connect with them too. If you don't like my style honey we ain't gonna get a long...get my drift!

I am not taking my video down because you disapprove.

You will always be able to find male 'friends' if you show your body off like that but what calibre of friend will they be exactly?

The type that hang around and support you?

It doesn't sound like it

People aren't having a go at you, they are trying to offer advice

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I'm not suggesting you put your video down. You are not just crass but also uncouth.

I would never want to have you as a friend, so don't even go there.

I can see why you tend to attract males. But as your history suggests, you got abused by one of them at least. But by all means, carry on.

So if you want to be purposely obtuse, then very well.

And by the way, I only came across your video accidentally. I certainly won't look at it again. I tend to make mistakes and learn from them. Which is more than what you seem to do in regards to this issue.

All these people's energies, males and females, wanting to give you helpful advice, and you are just so vile and common you wouldn't get it in a million years. No, not even with your so called IQ!

And don't bother answering me, because I won't come on this thread again.

And I am not creating the drama...you lot are by going on about my video.

In most threads I quietly read most peoples replies until people start making up BS and go on the attack.

And yes you are...you are being judgmental and you are making accusations that slander a persons reputation

Ie attention seeking, sad, etc all offensive remarks by the way.

If you didn't want to stir up drama there was no need to even mention the video as what I post on an outside blog is my business. I have not linked that video on this site, I have only to other videos that I house in the same place (the same would happen if I had provided my youtube link to said videos). You did not need to go through my entire blog and bring an unrelated matter into the discussion and fixate on it because you disapprove of a video I made.

Dont you blame me for what YOU started.

You are just nitpicking and being nasty. Yes you are. You are doing the female group up thing in order to put someone else down.

You are even talking amongst yourselves about it even when the person is in the area.

You are no different to those bitchy females who congregate in groups to mock and gossip about someone they just don't like. Christ almighty, why would I want to socialise with that.

If that is all you have got to offer...stick socialising up your arse. And I mean that.

Go shopping or something and paint your nails...

How many more times.

It is just a video and that is not how I act in the real world.

It is one video, one video...that I was experimenting with.

Good god its like talking to the intellectually challenged.