Why are so many autistic people unattractive?
Yes there are plenty of autistic men who are not very attractive but this isn't what kills them dating wise. Listen i'm no male model and I definitely have my physical flaws but this isn't what kills me dating wise.
What kills autistic people dating wise is poor communication and flirting skills around the opposite sex in addition to unattractive physical appearance. Imagine talking to a girl you like and having absolutely no idea what to say to her, how to flirt with her, or keep the conversation going. You'd get boring pretty quick. It's a handicap and I know what it's like.
Being autistic and dating is like grannies playing COD online. We both suck and have no idea what we're doing. It's a handicap in the dating world and because most of us are not womanizers and dont know how to flirt, most of us shoudn't be trying to attract typical neurotypical girls. Since most aspie guys are either nerdy, we're simply not compatible with these type of girls.
Iv'e been using Tinder for the past month and it's pretty safe to say it isn't for me because of my obvious handicap with talking. Every time iv'e tried to talk to girls, they eventually stop messaging back. (Plus only getting 8 matches which 3 of them were bots. It's pretty safe to say i'm no male model)
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