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kraftiekortie
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29 Dec 2015, 7:00 pm

The number that Uncle provided is also good to have.



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29 Dec 2015, 7:03 pm

It's probably more convincing if your parents ask. I think that will work, so you will for sure not have to see that woman on another session.



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29 Dec 2015, 7:04 pm

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Yep...I think that would be a good idea.

But you also have to show this therapist, somehow, that you're not stupid, and that you're aware of what she is doing. I really believe that. She might think your cognitive level is not as high as it actually is.

I also believe, contrary to what some others are saying, that you have to have it in your mind that the bullying MUST STOP. Even if it's not successful, I believe you have to have that mindset.



Yeah I have this feeling she thinks I'm stupid. I do believe bullying should stop it is bad and is the cause for a lot of the worlds problems!



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29 Dec 2015, 7:04 pm

She has to have as many weapons as possible at her disposal.



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29 Dec 2015, 7:06 pm

Earthling wrote:
It's probably more convincing if your parents ask. I think that will work, so you will for sure not have to see that woman on another session.


I think it would make it easier if they ask at the start of next year. It would give me a better chance I think.



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29 Dec 2015, 7:08 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
The number that Uncle provided is also good to have.


Yeah I will have to save it some where.



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29 Dec 2015, 7:08 pm

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She has to have as many weapons as possible at her disposal.

Hmm. Yeah, recording some abuse before asking for a therapist swap might be better in case her request is rejected.

It's not always easy to immediately find the very best way to do things... and even if one is sure one has found it... :|
At least we're having some discussion here.
Man, I wish I'd had that back in the day... :P



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29 Dec 2015, 7:11 pm

Earthling wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
She has to have as many weapons as possible at her disposal.

Hmm. Yeah, recording some abuse before asking for a therapist swap might be better in case her request is rejected.

It's not always easy to immediately find the very best way to do things... and even if one is sure one has found it... :|
At least we're having some discussion here.
Man, I wish I'd had that back in the day... :P


I'm glad I live in this day and age!



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30 Dec 2015, 4:49 pm

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I had a teacher who was like that during my MS years. She often threatened me and an old friend who had LFA to be sent to the principal's office.

During my HS years, another teacher never took anyone with special needs very seriously.


I'm sorry that happened to you she sounds like a b*tch! BTW what does LFA mean?

Yeah it is sad when teachers are bigots.


As much as I wanted to report that MS teacher to the principal, the principal didn't give a s**t.

The irony about my HS teacher is that she worked alongside the principal in order to make sure students with special needs were social outcasts.


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30 Dec 2015, 6:22 pm

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What do you guys think I should do if I do?


Déjà vu... :|

Have you thought about changing your post up slightly, addressing it to the Head Teacher, and either E-mailing it to them or their Assistant? That's what we used to do in High School when we had problems with a Teacher, except when we had a problem with the Head Teacher, though that very rarely happened, but when it did we would contact the Local Educational Authorities.

There's also someone higher up the chain of command, and when you want to make the bottom of the chain swing, it's best hold it higher up.

(I had something else in mind when writing this part, but I lost my train of thought :| )

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And have you ever had a mean teacher?


Oh yes, I've had lots of those... But, I think that just made they few teachers that were genuinely good shine all the brighter.

One of my old lovers from a couple of years back used to be a Head Teacher before she retired. She never really talked about it much, but when she did, she always seemed so mean and strict, it's like she regretted the way a lot of things turned out. Sometime before her funeral was she said... Hmm... I probably shouldn't talk about this on here... Though I will say, that what happened at her funeral was very touching, the turnout that she got was beautiful, and everything her former Students said was both very heartwarming, and inspiring. It really makes me wish I'd known her back then, even though I wouldn't have been born yet, but still...

Whoops! finished that post in a bit of a daze there, I completely forgot to fix the quote code, I've edited it in now.


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31 Dec 2015, 12:03 am

Aspergirl16 Dont be afraid to ask for help if you need! i know at times emotionally you may feel it is better to deal with than to do something about it... However i have become a bit more thicker skinned in that department these days and have no problems at all to give a few phone calls to see what your options are! Just send me a PM if you have any worries! Will be more than happy to help!



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31 Dec 2015, 2:03 am

Uncle wrote:
Aspergirl16 Dont be afraid to ask for help if you need! i know at times emotionally you may feel it is better to deal with than to do something about it... However i have become a bit more thicker skinned in that department these days and have no problems at all to give a few phone calls to see what your options are! Just send me a PM if you have any worries! Will be more than happy to help!


Thank you! :D



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31 Dec 2015, 2:03 am

And thanks everyone for your help!