what does very high functioning mean to you?

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Roo95
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02 Feb 2018, 5:04 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
It wasn't acceptable, in my family, to be "eccentric" or "weird." My mother, especially, would seek to knock the "eccentricity" and "weirdness" out of me.

My first "word" was actually a phrase: "I see a ball."

I spoke the phrase in a therapy room at a summer camp which, I believe, was a site for autism research. The camp was called Harrelson. I have not been able to find it on the Internet. I was 5 1/2 years old. They had both autistic kids and normal kids in the research. My brother was one of the "normal kids" who were researched.

My parents were a member of NYABIC, which stands for "New York Association for Brain-Injured Children." You can find this organization on the Internet. It has a different name now, with the acronym ANIBIC, which stands for "Association for Neurologically Impaired/Brain-injured Children." I went to their nursery school, which was for autistic kids, and other supposedly "brain-injured" kids. I believe many of the "brain-injured" kids would probably be diagnosed with either ADHD, or an ASD, should they have been assessed in the 1990s and beyond.


Your parents sound exactly like mine. I grew up in a wealthy stuck up family where everyone had to be perfect. If I displayed any odd autistic behavior my parents would punish me which I think is why I played up alot in school. But it's probably why I can act normal for periods of time now and rarely have anyone suspect me of having AS



Roo95
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03 Feb 2018, 3:09 pm

I also forgot to mention that I no longer bore people by running on and on about my interests like I did in my younger years when I had a James bond obsession. I can't bare eye contact but i can force myself to do it. I have also never been completely lonely, i have always had my small group of friends from childhood to now. My stims are also very subtle and often not noticeable and I know the appropriate times to stim. I also can but with a lot of anxiety, use public transport. So as I say, I guess you Could call me very high functioning.