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ASPartOfMe
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04 May 2019, 1:25 pm

Ever not been?


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05 May 2019, 9:01 am

When I was a young child I’d play alone and not see the appeal of playing with other girls with dolls etc, but as I’ve gotten older and suffered bullying at school I learnt how to fit in and become a good listener as an adult. I still find it hard work and don't always enjoy what others would accept as normal. I was masking to the max. Now I’m aware of this I consciously mask for certain social situations to fit in but don’t let it take over my identity. I was even called ‘alien’ by the bullies at school and I never fit in anywhere, always drifted on the periphery. I wear my weird badge with pride now unless social decorum dictates it.


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05 May 2019, 9:27 am

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Ever Been Perceived As Weird By NTs?


Weird, Freak, nerd, etc. Yeah, I've been called those to my face.

My favorite so far is definitely "Every kinda way crazy" :lol:
Probably because it was said endearingly by a friend.



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05 May 2019, 3:52 pm

People thought I was weird my whole life.


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05 May 2019, 9:29 pm

Fern wrote:
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Ever Been Perceived As Weird By NTs?


Weird, Freak, nerd, etc. Yeah, I've been called those to my face.

My favorite so far is definitely "Every kinda way crazy" :lol:
Probably because it was said endearingly by a friend.

In HS (1978-1982) I got those, plus E.T., Space Cadet, Mr. Spock... you get the idea.

Wrong planet indeed.


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