Hey skibum,
Thanks for creating this thread. Raising awareness is always a good thing. I've been wanting to contribute for days, but I'm to tired to write an elaborated response.
I can only speak from my experience with a medical environment, since I don't have encounters with law enforcement.
Most important:
A doctor/nurse/... has to say what they are going to do, and do what they have said!
For example: when taking blood pressure, have them explain: I'm going to put this cuff around your upper arm, the cuff is going to inflate, this creates pressure and might be uncomfortable, after 5 seconds the machine is going to beep... and so on.
I always request they explain what they are doing, otherwise I get nervous.
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Staff can't be understanding if they don't know you're autistic. Best is to not assume anything, and just ask the patient. Although I am generally speaking not open about my diagnosis, upon asked, I always reply honestly.
When taking am MRI, I had to write a form. In a certain part I was asked "other medical conditions" I wrote ASD, aversion to loud noise. I already brought my own earplugs to the appointment, but the staff had earplugs ready and was extra patient and caring!
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There is nothing so assaulting than having to sit in a busy emergency waiting room with flickering tube lights, noise of other people etc. Don't take sensitivities lightly!
Last time I was waiting in a hospital before it was my turn, I was getting severely overwhelmed. I asked if I could wait somewhere else: not possible. I also couldn't put on earmuffs, because they only announced verbally whose turn it is... If I had shut down, I might still be waiting to get help because I wouldn't be able to hear my name anymore!
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As a last thing: be specific about waiting time! Don't say to a patient: I'll be back to you soon, say: I'll be back to you in 25 minutes!
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Hope this helps, skibum!
I'm way to tired to write more in a foreign language, but I hope what I have written is comprehensible. If not, let me know and I'll get back to you in the next couple of days.
All the best,
JSBACH
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