How Should An AS Sufferer Deal With A Gay Man?

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Ed, are you an American that is just working in Hungary? You "sound" American.

I'm a Boston boy retired to Hungary to enjoy the pretty girls, sunshine and cheap prices. The fact that I have a Hungarian girlfriend might have something to do with this as well.

One other thing, the assassination job done with an umbrella was Bulgarian, not Hungarian.

Ed Almos

Right you are my bad

My father was saying how the Hungarians have a completely different temperament to the Slavs, and even in the midst of the cold war were never 100% complicit with the USSR lifestyle even the most hardened communists.

Did you meet your girlfriend online? That is how I met my husband 9 years ago : )

I was running a personal ad on Excite.com and she replied to it with a one-line message asking if I accepted messages from outside the UK (where I was living at the time). Two months later we met for the first time in London, nine months after that we had exchanged a thousand emails and I suddenly realized that something special was going on. Seven years later we're still together.

Ain't love grand

Ed Almos

Sounds great. Wish I'd have a good online experience like that! By the way, congratulations on handling your stalker! Wish I could put a stop to mine.

How Should An AS Sufferer Deal With A Gay Man?

Tell him that you have AIDS or Hepatitis C or Herpes Simplex...

This stuff mostly chills even the most aroused person.

What if the homosexual has those? How will that affect OTHER relationships?

Then he should tell him that he have Leprosy... (joke)

Hi Ed,

Here's another idea- when you see him in the locker room again say very loudly using his name if you know it- "Why do you keep watching me while I change clothes and shower? I have told you I am not gay and not interested in you. I have a girlfriend and am not interested in any other kind of relationship. So you better stop stalking me and staring at my naked body". Make sure other men are in the locker room with you to witness this.

Alternate idea is say the above but when you are out in the gym and he approaches you when there are a bunch of other people there to witness.

Only other idea is to change gym memberships if you can and do not tell anyone at the old gym where you are transferring or someone might tell him.

I would say report him to the police for stalking. But I realize laws in Hungry differ from the US and I do not know if the police would be of much help.

I think that segregration of changing rooms and toilets etc is illogical as it is based on the premise that all men and women are heterosexual.All such facilities should be unisex.


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You're making the same mistake as the PC brigade with this "one rule for all" thing: you're basing it on the premise that homosexual and heterosexual relationships are equivalent. They are not, and it's that ridiculous notion that leads to the quandary over what the originator of this thread should do in his current situation. To illustrate the point, and directly related to your comments, you wouldn't have males and females use the same changing facilities, and so the situation of harassment described wouldn't occur, would it?[/quote]

I have to tell you snake, everything you've said on this subject is racist and homophobic. Doesn't matter if a person is ignorant, what you're during is using that as an excuse to call them a racial slur.

Following your logic:

Not all ignorant people are n**gers, just the black ones. Not all ignorant people are f*gs, just the gay ones and so forth. Ohhh, don't worry, I'm not racist I only spew hate speech when I've decided they deserve it.

Your ideas on this are just wrong. Why not just call them a**holes or something similar, snake? It's because you're being racist, and there's nothing you can do to justify it.