anathemaviolet wrote:
Tetraquartz,
I just noticed that Katie does hand gestures in the same way I do (pretty much like normal people, despite other Aspie traits). I do it more when I'm anxious than any other time. I wonder if it's correct to assume that gesturing while speaking is less common in guy Aspies than girl ones. Isn't that how the general population is too?
I don't know. I do know people used to poke fun at me for overuse of hand gestures. And other mannerisms that I couldn't tell the difference between normal and not. Yet they seemed to notice
something.
In public speaking one learns to keep hand gestures to a minimum, but I kept forgetting and using hand gestures anyway. I took public speaking in high school, and enjoyed giving speeches to the point where I was elected as class representative, but still couldn't talk very well informally.
Nowadays, that's pretty difficult for me.
I'm not sure I answered your question... except that, I don't really know.
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