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There's nothing vague about it for people who are autistc.

Thanks Marieclaire

Aspie Artist, you need help. First of all, I don't teach my 4 year old to hurt herself. I was just explaining how I learned how to deal with physical pain. You need to listen if you are ever going to learn and it sounds like you need a jack hammer to pound some sense into that thick skull.

Sometimes when people have too much put down, self esteem sinks and with it there becomes an expectation that people will respond negatively. It becomes too easy to misinterpret and take offense when none is intended. It is, to my mind the sign of a fragile self esteem. People can begin to doubt themselves so much that they begin to read negatives and put downs where none are intended. For myself I would do this with posts on the internet. With just the written word it is harder to work out and understand peoples intentions.
Aspiartist, I really don't think anyone meant to hurt you in this thread with the initial responses, take your time, and read the posts slowly, PM me if you are still in doubt.

Aspieartist, now I will piss you off.. I'm sure. (I do that to some people I guess.)

I understand how you feel like you're a victim when your upset about something in the world other than the thread, yet it feels like the thread.

You have opportunity to be mad somewhere private to. Where no one will reply or notice. Rehearse. Yell. Punch a pillow. Do whatever to feel better about what's actualy bothering you. (besides killing yourself. By the way, that's how I deal with emotional wounds. I pretend 'name here' is in front of me, even though they aren't, and I debate.)

Sorry you don't think this, but you are getting personal with some people when you call autistics frauds". Two people tried to apologise to you! (for some reason)

Music. Listening to.

Listening to music sounds like probably the nicest, most calming thing a person can do when feeling wounded. Thanks