Ever came across NT's you really liked?

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There has only been one neurotypical who was a genuine friend from 1977-78 but since then I have found neurotypicals cheating, abusive people who think they are better than everyone, nasty. Not only that they always think that they are in the right when in fact the opposite is often true so no I do not like neurotypical people.
It was a neurotypical who exposed me to so much aspiphobia in the 1970's and 1980's at school. They pretended to be my friend but the truth was different. After 1977 there was less chance of me finding a true friend than my mum becoming an astrophysicist because the neurotypicals I was surrounded by were so stupid and people like that I find threatening. I find that neurotypical people are just too fussy when it comes to people so no wonder AS people can get very anxious. During my adolescence girls/women that was available would have not been dead forming a relationship with an Asperger syndrome person.

I find that neurotypical people treat me differently to how they wish to be treated and it is these idiots I was surrounded by. Even my family have been a bunch of patronising bastards who just make excuses and no real attempt at a sincere apology. At Eldon Day hospital; it was a mistake being there, was a nurse who was a cow too me as she was a misandrist who just took her problems of her divorce out on me she looked like a witch.

What's strange is that I often find that the people I like are the people most others don't like, and vice versa.

I remember that, at a company I used to work, there was one guy - a member of the building's security team - who I know that a lot of people really didn't like and had big problems with. I always got on fine with him and often used to chat to him. One of his colleagues, on the other hand, who was supposed to be a 'lovely man' who everyone thought was great, I couldn't stand.

I think what it is is that I can't bear people who I perceive as being false in any way. And I meet a lot of them. If someone's grumpy, because that's just the way they are, that's fine. As long as they can be reasonably civil to me when I need to ask them a question, I have no issue with it. What I can't tolerate are the kind of people who gush with 'friendship' but don't mean a word of it.