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26 May 2018, 3:10 pm

I was at a nude beach when I found out the Son of Sam was caught.



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26 May 2018, 4:54 pm

goldfish21 wrote:

Well, that was a rude little dig.

Let me use a simpler example that maybe you'll be able to follow along with:

I have a headache.
I self administer medicine to treat it. (Acetaminophen)
My headache symptoms are alleviated.
I can tell this on my own.
I don't require confirmation from a Medical Doctor that my headache is now gone.
Headache returns 6 hours later.
I take more Acetaminophen.
My headache fades away again.
Once more, I don't need a doctor to tell me that the medicine worked to alleviate my symptoms.

Surprise surprise, the exact same thing happens when I administer medicine to myself to alleviate different symptoms of a different ailment. Symptoms exist, I take medicine that I know works to alleviate said symptoms, symptoms diminish. I don't need anyone else to tell my whether I'm feeling relief of my symptoms or not.

Oh, but there's scientific documentation that says Acetaminophen relieves headaches, you say. Guess what? There's scientific documentation that says healing the gut, probiotics, and even intestinal cleanses all relieve ASD symptoms. This study is a fantastic source of that info: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5408485/ And I am very optimistic about the work these & other medical doctors are doing to further this knowledge. They probably have all spent some time in Blue Space, too. 8)


Like I already said, I have been on probiotics longer than you have, as prescribed by a medical expert in internal (gut) medicine - so I'm am not arguing against the use of probiotics.

Now the thing with an analgesic is that it might be treating the symptom but not addressing the cause. If headaches are due to a sinus condition for instance, an analgesic is not sinus medicine, it just masks the symptoms. So while the person has alleviated their symptoms, they still have a sinus problem. If they think their headaches are due to stress, they'll just keep taking the analgesic and try other stuff like meditation and feel better, but they still don't know what's actually wrong with them, they just believe they know.

So I am not arguing against the use of analgesics. I'm just saying a person is usually better off being diagnosed by an doctor, rather than diagnosing and treating themselves for what they believe they have.



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26 May 2018, 5:16 pm

EzraS wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:

Well, that was a rude little dig.

Let me use a simpler example that maybe you'll be able to follow along with:

I have a headache.
I self administer medicine to treat it. (Acetaminophen)
My headache symptoms are alleviated.
I can tell this on my own.
I don't require confirmation from a Medical Doctor that my headache is now gone.
Headache returns 6 hours later.
I take more Acetaminophen.
My headache fades away again.
Once more, I don't need a doctor to tell me that the medicine worked to alleviate my symptoms.

Surprise surprise, the exact same thing happens when I administer medicine to myself to alleviate different symptoms of a different ailment. Symptoms exist, I take medicine that I know works to alleviate said symptoms, symptoms diminish. I don't need anyone else to tell my whether I'm feeling relief of my symptoms or not.

Oh, but there's scientific documentation that says Acetaminophen relieves headaches, you say. Guess what? There's scientific documentation that says healing the gut, probiotics, and even intestinal cleanses all relieve ASD symptoms. This study is a fantastic source of that info: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5408485/ And I am very optimistic about the work these & other medical doctors are doing to further this knowledge. They probably have all spent some time in Blue Space, too. 8)


Like I already said, I have been on probiotics longer than you have, as prescribed by a medical expert in internal (gut) medicine - so I'm am not arguing against the use of probiotics.

Now the thing with an analgesic is that it might be treating the symptom but not addressing the cause. If headaches are due to a sinus condition for instance, an analgesic is not sinus medicine, it just masks the symptoms. So while the person has alleviated their symptoms, they still have a sinus problem. If they think their headaches are due to stress, they'll just keep taking the analgesic and try other stuff like meditation and feel better, but they still don't know what's actually wrong with them, they just believe they know.

So I am not arguing against the use of analgesics. I'm just saying a person is usually better off being diagnosed by an doctor, rather than diagnosing and treating themselves for what they believe they have.


:lol: You’re getting ever so close to not disbelieving me, but still not quite there.

I don’t need a doctor to tell me what my experience of life is any more than someone with their face on fire needs a doctor to tell them that they’re a burn victim.

Why do you have such difficulty comprehending this? :?

If a doctor never told you you were autistic, would you be NT? Somehow I think you’d be just as autistic as you are..

Edit: And unless you’ve withheld a significant portion of information, you’re not utilizing probiotics as medicine directly to the organs they influence in the same manner that I am.


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26 May 2018, 6:02 pm

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:lol: You’re getting ever so close to not disbelieving me, but still not quite there.

I don’t need a doctor to tell me what my experience of life is any more than someone with their face on fire needs a doctor to tell them that they’re a burn victim.

Why do you have such difficulty comprehending this? :?

If a doctor never told you you were autistic, would you be NT? Somehow I think you’d be just as autistic as you are..


If my parents had decided to diagnose me themselves, they might have concluded that I was intellectually disabled or brain damaged or whatever instead of severely autistic. They might have studied the condition they thought I had extensively and done things that were actually helpful, but they still would not be addressing the actual problem.

What if the person who thought for sure they had burns actually had staphylococcal scalded skin syndrome (an illness characterised by red blistering skin that looks like a burn or scald)?



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26 May 2018, 6:12 pm

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I heard an interesting thing from a counselor that low achievers in high school are often bristling with self confidence.


It's known as the Dunning–Kruger effect


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26 May 2018, 6:50 pm

EzraS wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
:lol: You’re getting ever so close to not disbelieving me, but still not quite there.

I don’t need a doctor to tell me what my experience of life is any more than someone with their face on fire needs a doctor to tell them that they’re a burn victim.

Why do you have such difficulty comprehending this? :?

If a doctor never told you you were autistic, would you be NT? Somehow I think you’d be just as autistic as you are..


If my parents had decided to diagnose me themselves, they might have concluded that I was intellectually disabled or brain damaged or whatever instead of severely autistic. They might have studied the condition they thought I had extensively and done things that were actually helpful, but they still would not be addressing the actual problem.

What if the person who thought for sure they had burns actually had staphylococcal scalded skin syndrome (an illness characterised by red blistering skin that looks like a burn or scald)?


Your parents were seeking a diagnosis for an obviously “different,” infant/young child.

Mine didn’t because I’m significantly higher functioning; Asperger’s Syndrome vs classic Autism.

It wouldn’t be until I was a nearly 30 year old man doing my own research and self discovery process that I would learn and realize my own diagnosis. I don’t need anyone to tell me what I know.

And I said “face on fire,” as in FLAMES, not some flesh eating bacterial infection that resembles chemical burns or whatever.

Your posts aren’t merely insulting to my intelligence and ability read, comprehend, and match my entire life’s experiences to textbooks on ASD, but they’re insulting to every other person here who knows their own diagnosis via self research & learning.

Edit: I was also born ~a decade before Dr. Hans Asperger’s work was even translated into English.


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26 May 2018, 7:08 pm

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Your parents were seeking a diagnosis for an obviously “different,” infant/young child.

Mine didn’t because I’m significantly higher functioning; Asperger’s Syndrome vs classic Autism.

It wouldn’t be until I was a nearly 30 year old man doing my own research and self discovery process that I would learn and realize my own diagnosis. I don’t need anyone to tell me what I know.

And I said “face on fire,” as in FLAMES, not some flesh eating bacterial infection that resembles chemical burns or whatever.

Your posts aren’t merely insulting to my intelligence and ability read, comprehend, and match my entire life’s experiences to textbooks on ASD, but they’re insulting to every other person here who knows their own diagnosis via self research & learning.


Nevertheless even though they are very intelligent and well educated, they could have easily come to wrong conclusions or have missed something on their own.

If someone's face was on fire as in flames, they should take an ambulance to a burn ward and have a doctor treat them rather than try treating it themselves.

Just about every time someone new here asks "do I have autism?" or says "I believe I have autism" they are told that no layperson is qualified to diagnose and that they need to consult an expert to find out for sure what's actually wrong with them.

Even actual (responsible) doctors don't diagnose and treat themselves.



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26 May 2018, 7:49 pm

Sometimes, first aid must be administered, and a sort of “diagnosis” made by a layperson before a doctor is seen.

Burns must be attended to immediately. Otherwise, there could be severe pain and the possibility of disfigurement.

Ultimately, a doctor must be seen, and the doctor take over most of the care of the patient.



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26 May 2018, 7:53 pm

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I was at a nude beach when I found out the Son of Sam was caught.


I hope the news wasn't too exciting for you :wink:


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26 May 2018, 7:56 pm

Lol...I kept my clothes on. Couldn’t bring myself to get naked. I was 17 years old.



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26 May 2018, 7:58 pm

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Lol...I kept my clothes on. Couldn’t bring myself to get naked. I was 17 years old.


Didn't that make you feel more awkward ? or was it a mixed dressed beach


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26 May 2018, 8:04 pm

It was a little awkward.

A naked woman was reading the New York Daily News, which carried the headline. She never knew I was looking at her.

This was at Riis Park, Brooklyn.



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26 May 2018, 8:09 pm

:lol:

I was about 14 the first time I saw topless sunbathers on a beach , I could only tan my back :wink:


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26 May 2018, 8:17 pm

Clothes are just an illusion.



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26 May 2018, 8:24 pm

^ I will use that excuse next time I get accused of mentally undressing someone :lol:


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27 May 2018, 9:53 am

goldfish21 wrote:
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Theses 15. Positivism has this underlying assumption that one can overcome the law of supply and demand. Example: Can everyone who dreams to be in the NFL or the NBA actually do that? No, it is because there are only a limited amount of teams and positions for each team? How many people who dreamed of becoming an astronaut actually both worked hard for it and actually achieved it? How many astronauts exist currently?

Theses 16. Corollary to These 15. Positivism denies one's reality.


But what if positivism defines one’s reality? What if 100% of the very few people who are astronauts became what they are because of who they are - someone who’s innately & automatically practiced positivism their entire lives?



I buy this. But what about others who innately & automatically practiced positivism their entire lives and did not achieve it in spite of the same drive and tenacity? For a time, no matter how driven women were they were not allowed to become astronauts. This eventually changed because of our cultural change. But, this doesn't have to be the only case.

It could be that one had the same drive and tenacity yet didn't make the cut. Thing is if positivism truthfully worked all the time then everyone would be able to achieve their dreams, aspirations, no matter the circumstances. It would be like Pleasantville. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pleasantville_(film)

Is it like this today or that we're guaranteed nothing no matter what actions we take and how much one believes and wishes upon star.


There's still competition.

What of without positivism people have no chance of achieving their goal, and with it they have a fighting chance by competing?

Same goes for high level athletes. I doubt there are many Olympians who never believed they could become Olympic athletes.

But it's not belief alone that gets someone to a goal like that, it's also hard work & determination, And winning - these things are competitive af. But without positivism they're not likely even in the running. It's a necessary component to their success, but not the one and only thing that gets them there.


And, what about all the others who did all the hard work and had all of the determination yet never made the cut?

Another thing, who makes the decisions about what Olympians and Astronauts get selected? Who sets the rules and standards? Not the Olympians or Astronauts. We don't have as much control over our lives and destiny as our society promotes. Positivism is but a part of the entire tapestry not the whole thing.