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27 May 2018, 7:27 pm

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I never said what you said I said. What I said is that positivism, optimism, hard work, discipline, focus, etc are not panaceas.


Then why do they work so well for everyone who employs their use?


They don't always. Its just that successes are reported more then failures and besides I can apply my discipline, hard work, focus to digging a hole and refilling it all day. But if I'm gaining no return on my investment then what good was hard work, discipline, focus, etc? One can work hard and focused yet unproductive.

Another thing.

Let's say one has a maze and 50 rats to run the maze to get to the cheese and there are 20 paths to get to the cheese. After one rat discovers one path the path closes up so no other rat can choose the same path. 30 rats won't get to the cheese and 20 will. In time, the rats come up with engineering techniques to get the 30 across.

BUT, None of the rats ever question the maze itself or question that there could be something better then the maze that lays outside. In fact, none of them can conceive there is an outside of the maze. So, as more time passes cheese supplies diminish until the rats come up with more and more ingenuitive ways to kill each other. And, as the last rat dies he realizes there was an outside and they should have went there. And, then he dies.

No matter who wins and loses we're still rats in a maze.

What is beyond the walls we live and can we go beyond?


Consider perhaps:

The Allegory of the Cave, or Plato's Cave, was presented by the Greek philosopher Plato in his work Republic (514a–520a) to compare "the effect of education (παιδεία) and the lack of it on our nature". It is written as a dialogue between Plato's brother Glaucon and his mentor Socrates, narrated by the latter. The allegory is presented after the analogy of the sun (508b–509c) and the analogy of the divided line (509d–511e). All three are characterized in relation to dialectic at the end of Books VII and VIII (531d–534e).


Imprisonment in the cave

Plato begins by having Socrates ask Glaucon to imagine a cave where people have been imprisoned from birth. These prisoners are chained so that their legs and necks are fixed, forcing them to gaze at the wall in front of them and not look around at the cave, each other, or themselves (514a–b).[3] Behind the prisoners is a fire, and between the fire and the prisoners is a raised walkway with a low wall, behind which people walk carrying objects or puppets "of men and other living things" (514b).[3] The people walk behind the wall so their bodies do not cast shadows for the prisoners to see, but the objects they carry do ("just as puppet showmen have screens in front of them at which they work their puppets" (514a)[3]). The prisoners cannot see any of what is happening behind them, they are only able to see the shadows cast upon the cave wall in front of them. The sounds of the people talking echo off the walls, and the prisoners believe these sounds come from the shadows (514c).[3]

Socrates suggests that the shadows are reality for the prisoners because they have never seen anything else; they do not realize that what they see are shadows of objects in front of a fire, much less that these objects are inspired by real things outside the cave which they do not see (514b-515a).[3]


Copied and pasted from:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allegory_of_the_Cave

Or read the allegory itself via the following link:

https://web.stanford.edu/class/ihum40/cave.pdf


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27 May 2018, 10:33 pm

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If you really, truthfully believe this then you're only seeing a fraction of reality you choose to see.


Yep. steadfastly adhered to. don't break the spell.



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27 May 2018, 11:11 pm

EzraS wrote:
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If you really, truthfully believe this then you're only seeing a fraction of reality you choose to see.


Yep. steadfastly adhered to. don't break the spell.


I don't follow.



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27 May 2018, 11:40 pm

Deepthought 7 wrote:
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goldfish21 wrote:
cubedemon6073 wrote:
I never said what you said I said. What I said is that positivism, optimism, hard work, discipline, focus, etc are not panaceas.


Then why do they work so well for everyone who employs their use?


They don't always. Its just that successes are reported more then failures and besides I can apply my discipline, hard work, focus to digging a hole and refilling it all day. But if I'm gaining no return on my investment then what good was hard work, discipline, focus, etc? One can work hard and focused yet unproductive.

Another thing.

Let's say one has a maze and 50 rats to run the maze to get to the cheese and there are 20 paths to get to the cheese. After one rat discovers one path the path closes up so no other rat can choose the same path. 30 rats won't get to the cheese and 20 will. In time, the rats come up with engineering techniques to get the 30 across.

BUT, None of the rats ever question the maze itself or question that there could be something better then the maze that lays outside. In fact, none of them can conceive there is an outside of the maze. So, as more time passes cheese supplies diminish until the rats come up with more and more ingenuitive ways to kill each other. And, as the last rat dies he realizes there was an outside and they should have went there. And, then he dies.

No matter who wins and loses we're still rats in a maze.

What is beyond the walls we live and can we go beyond?


Consider perhaps:

The Allegory of the Cave, or Plato's Cave, was presented by the Greek philosopher Plato in his work Republic (514a–520a) to compare "the effect of education (παιδεία) and the lack of it on our nature". It is written as a dialogue between Plato's brother Glaucon and his mentor Socrates, narrated by the latter. The allegory is presented after the analogy of the sun (508b–509c) and the analogy of the divided line (509d–511e). All three are characterized in relation to dialectic at the end of Books VII and VIII (531d–534e).


Imprisonment in the cave

Plato begins by having Socrates ask Glaucon to imagine a cave where people have been imprisoned from birth. These prisoners are chained so that their legs and necks are fixed, forcing them to gaze at the wall in front of them and not look around at the cave, each other, or themselves (514a–b).[3] Behind the prisoners is a fire, and between the fire and the prisoners is a raised walkway with a low wall, behind which people walk carrying objects or puppets "of men and other living things" (514b).[3] The people walk behind the wall so their bodies do not cast shadows for the prisoners to see, but the objects they carry do ("just as puppet showmen have screens in front of them at which they work their puppets" (514a)[3]). The prisoners cannot see any of what is happening behind them, they are only able to see the shadows cast upon the cave wall in front of them. The sounds of the people talking echo off the walls, and the prisoners believe these sounds come from the shadows (514c).[3]

Socrates suggests that the shadows are reality for the prisoners because they have never seen anything else; they do not realize that what they see are shadows of objects in front of a fire, much less that these objects are inspired by real things outside the cave which they do not see (514b-515a).[3]


Copied and pasted from:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allegory_of_the_Cave

Or read the allegory itself via the following link:

https://web.stanford.edu/class/ihum40/cave.pdf


I read the story and I must say I love. It fits our modern times.



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28 May 2018, 12:46 am

cubedemon6073 wrote:
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If you really, truthfully believe this then you're only seeing a fraction of reality you choose to see.


Yep. steadfastly adhered to. don't break the spell.


I don't follow.


I believe someone who only sees a fraction of reality they choose to see, will likely cling to it and be extremely resistant to reasoning put forth by others.



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28 May 2018, 1:30 am

EzraS wrote:
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EzraS wrote:
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If you really, truthfully believe this then you're only seeing a fraction of reality you choose to see.


Yep. steadfastly adhered to. don't break the spell.


I don't follow.


I believe someone who only sees a fraction of reality they choose to see, will likely cling to it and be extremely resistant to reasoning put forth by others.


oh I agree. I resist the urge to cling as well.

I will add to what I said. If GF really, truthfully believe this then I have some land in Dumpwater FL to sell.



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28 May 2018, 6:04 am

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Humans are not infallible, but it's improbable that very intelligent and well educated people would make such a massive mistake as matching their entire experience of life from their earliest childhood memories to present day decades later to the textbook diagnostic criteria of ASD.

They are told to seek a diagnosis because:

1.) They are asking because they are not sure themselves. (I have not asked here because I am certain.)
2.) People here, no matter how educated - even doctors - cannot officially diagnose them solely based on the behaviour presented in their forum posts, so it would be irresponsible for even an MD to provide an official diagnosis (if that is what they seek) to someone on this forum based on their first post of "Do you think I'm Autistic?" Although, anyone here, layperson or not, could respond and say what they think and give a "Yeah, sounds like you're probably on the spectrum." - that's not hard to figure out in many cases.

:lol: Doctors don't diagnose and treat themselves... good one! Right, just like mechanics don't work on their own cars. :roll: Doctors seek other doctors opinions when they aren't certain of the answer themselves, or if they require a second opinion when it's something serious, or when they're legally obligated to have someone else fill out their medical records etc. Like any other human with specialized knowledge of anything they utilize in their profession, they use their knowledge for their own personal benefit, too, not just for diagnosing others. It's absurd to think that doctors' knowledge stops the moment they have an ailment and their brains just shut off and they MUST seek the professional opinion of a different MD in order to know that they have abc or xyz going on with their body.

5 years on and you the way you speak to me is as if you think I am stupid and can't possibly know myself. I didn't pick Autism out of a hat. I certainly researched many other possibilities - like many people here - and over a period of time longer than you've even been alive. I'm not the smartest guy in the world, but I'm certainly not an imbecile. I know I haven't even begun my next University education, but when I tell you that making it through University sciences with grades high enough to make it into, and then succeed at completing, Medical School, is a realistically achievable goal for me, I am also being truthful whether you believe me or not. It'd save us both a whole lot of typing/reading the same debate if you'd simply stop responding to me as if I am stupid and don't know what I'm talking about.


Nevertheless you're unqualified.


Unqualified for what? Knowing my own diagnosis?

Here’s a question for you, EzraS:

Did you know you were nonverbal before you were diagnosed as nonverbal? Or when a doctor spoke those words, or wrote them down on a piece of paper, was it some sort of magical revelation to you?


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28 May 2018, 6:13 am

cubedemon6073 wrote:
EzraS wrote:
cubedemon6073 wrote:
EzraS wrote:
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If you really, truthfully believe this then you're only seeing a fraction of reality you choose to see.


Yep. steadfastly adhered to. don't break the spell.


I don't follow.


I believe someone who only sees a fraction of reality they choose to see, will likely cling to it and be extremely resistant to reasoning put forth by others.


oh I agree. I resist the urge to cling as well.

I will add to what I said. If GF really, truthfully believe this then I have some land in Dumpwater FL to sell.


Who else but himself stands between a man and doing whatever he wants to to provide for himself? It’s peoples self limiting beliefs that prevent them from pursuing the jobs/businesses they want. And their own capabilities etc - which again, is themselves, no one else. People are free to pursue whatever work makes them happy or fulfilled or whatever. Even if they have to do a lot of other hard work along the way to getting to the role they want, people who are determined to do what they want with their time will find a way to do it - and they don’t let anyone stop them, not even themselves.


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28 May 2018, 7:04 am

goldfish21 wrote:
Here’s a question for you, EzraS:

Did you know you were nonverbal before you were diagnosed as nonverbal? Or when a doctor spoke those words, or wrote them down on a piece of paper, was it some sort of magical revelation to you?


Nonverbal is a symptom not a cause.
There's a threefold reason why I'm nonverbal. Should I have (A) diagnosed the cause myself and given myself speech therapy? Or (B) was it better to leave it up to qualified experts? Answer: B



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28 May 2018, 8:02 am

cubedemon6073 wrote:
EzraS wrote:
cubedemon6073 wrote:
EzraS wrote:
cubedemon6073 wrote:
If you really, truthfully believe this then you're only seeing a fraction of reality you choose to see.


Yep. steadfastly adhered to. don't break the spell.


I don't follow.


I believe someone who only sees a fraction of reality they choose to see, will likely cling to it and be extremely resistant to reasoning put forth by others.


oh I agree. I resist the urge to cling as well.

I will add to what I said. If GF really, truthfully believe this then I have some land in Dumpwater FL to sell.


Better start drawing up the paperwork.



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28 May 2018, 9:34 am

goldfish21 wrote:
cubedemon6073 wrote:
EzraS wrote:
cubedemon6073 wrote:
EzraS wrote:
cubedemon6073 wrote:
If you really, truthfully believe this then you're only seeing a fraction of reality you choose to see.


Yep. steadfastly adhered to. don't break the spell.


I don't follow.


I believe someone who only sees a fraction of reality they choose to see, will likely cling to it and be extremely resistant to reasoning put forth by others.


oh I agree. I resist the urge to cling as well.

I will add to what I said. If GF really, truthfully believe this then I have some land in Dumpwater FL to sell.


Who else but himself stands between a man and doing whatever he wants to to provide for himself? It’s peoples self limiting beliefs that prevent them from pursuing the jobs/businesses they want. And their own capabilities etc - which again, is themselves, no one else. People are free to pursue whatever work makes them happy or fulfilled or whatever. Even if they have to do a lot of other hard work along the way to getting to the role they want, people who are determined to do what they want with their time will find a way to do it - and they don’t let anyone stop them, not even themselves.


This is only somewhat true. But, for whatever reason you refuse to accept others have influence as well in defining what capabilities one has to have including the capacity to make eye contact. It is somewhat true that one is free to pursue whatever work makes one happy but a. one would have to know how to pursue that line of work and if one doesn't know one would have to be able to derive it or others would have to be willing to explain it to you and b. others would have to be willing to hire you and take a chance on you and others would have to be willing to buy your product.

GF, you say my beliefs are self limiting. Well I say you're like a number of people here in the US. You look at only part of the tapestry. According to your logic anyone who works hard, persevere hard and focuses hard can become part of the NFL, NBA or become an astronaut even the president of the USA. Does that even f*****g make logical sense? I don't live in Pleasantville where everything goes right all the time and anyone can be what they want. I live on planet Earth where things go wrong, not everyone gets what they want no matter how hard they work and some lose. GF even you said people perceive only a fraction of reality and that "perception is reality" which I accept as true (Parable of the Cave by Plato). If those two things are true then if you're a member of the human race (unless you're a 4th dimensional alien) then don't you perceive only a fraction of reality as well. Why can't both of what we say and believe have basis is reality? Why can't what I perceive as reality be just as valid as yours?



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28 May 2018, 9:42 am

While what Goldfish says is not logically true, it’s frequently used as an impetus.

Sort of like Santa Claus.

It works sometimes, too.

I believe people sometimes need to believe they are more capable than they are at the moment....sometimes, this results in an exponential increase in actual capability.

Not logical, perhaps delusional...but it might work.



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28 May 2018, 10:06 am

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While what Goldfish says is not logically true, it’s frequently used as an impetus.

Sort of like Santa Claus.

It works sometimes, too.

I believe people sometimes need to believe they are more capable than they are at the moment....sometimes, this results in an exponential increase in actual capability.

Not logical, perhaps delusional...but it might work.


KK, you may be right and it may be used as an impetus. But, what is the frequency of its success? Let's say we use this on 10 people and it only works on 3 or 4 out of 10. Why continue to use something that has a failing grade? Would this approach work on those who are more analytical then most or would a different approach be needed? Why continue to even use it on a person if one gets the same results again and again and again?

And, if you have to trick, delude and deceive people into doing what you want then to me something is wrong with your approach.



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28 May 2018, 10:46 am

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It's also why a number of people with serious mental health problems commit petty crimes in order to get thrown in jail and locked up where they have a place to stay and food to eat etc. The ideal solution sort of places simply don't exist.


And guess what? The taxpayers end up having to still support them anyway with three hots and a cot. So, how is money being saved? And, how much are the indirect costs to society for the crimes being committed like police having to respond while other more serious crimes are being committed and court costs? And, jurors who have to go there? What exactly is being saved by not having institutions and/or training programs?

You even mentioned about being a danger to oneself or to others. Ok! Why even have the part about being a danger to one's self? Wouldn't the most cost effective way to deal with me is to allow me to kill myself if I went down that route? Why lock me up in the first place for a few days to just provide me three hots and a cot which is costly as well? Why save me only to put me back in the same situation that led to me killing myself in the first place?

Instead, wouldn't the most cost effective thing to do is to let me kill myself, cremate me and put my ashes in potter's field?



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I'm sure many type A NT Republican/Conservative types would agree with that.. they'd rather pay several hundred dollars a month to keep some people out of their way in the workplace than have them slow their profits as it costs less than the alternative of having people working at their businesses that aren't generating positive cash flow for them. It's a business value proposition.


Seriously? You joking? Dude, put down the blunt and wake up and smell the coffee. No, they would not. I've debated their types and said the same things to them and I've even quoted the cost issue you quoted to me. They resent having to pay for my SSDI check and if given a chance would have it taken away from me. They see it as another welfare program and my receiving a welfare check.



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28 May 2018, 11:39 am

GF says always mentions choice and presumes that I always I have a choice. On the surface that is true and it is a tautology since once can well choose not to choose but what happens when one peels back the layers. Let's look at employers. Yeah I can choose to apply to any one of them I want but when it comes to non-tech functions of the job they're very similar and they're very similar in their hiring practices and their overall demands for professionalism.

So, what are my choices exactly? What are ASS-P's choices exactly? Are my choices between Kang and Kodos?