I had to jump in on this thread....
Me, while I'm not an aspie, my daughter is, I not only happen to like men with facial hair (my husband has a moustache currently, and would have the beard too if the military wouldn't prohibit it.) But one thing I happen to find very attractive in men ( now this people have said IS a little strange), but I like guys who wear glasses. I could be in a room full of men, and which one would I want to get to know? The one with glasses. Never was able to figure out why, and have thought that maybe because it makes them look more intelligent or if it makes them look more mature.
My husband joked with me one day and after seeing the I can't believe it's not butter commercial, asked me what I thought of Fabio. My opinion? Yes he's a good looking guy, a good looking guy who would look even better if he got a haircut.